I'm due with DS2 in July and my mom wants to throw me a sprinkle next month. After a loss last year, she really wants to celebrate this addition to our family (which I totally appreciate).

She's keeping the guest list small and only including close friends and family - like 15 people tops, including my two goddaughters (who are young). Is it a big deal that she's not inviting MIL or DH's side of the family?

I should add, my IL's live in the same small town as my parents (and the same town we live in and grew up in), but we do not really get along (nor do I really want her there). Just wondering if it's really bad.