Earlier today, I broached the subject of New Years Eve with DH. Every year, we go to a party at his best friend's house. I love his friend - he introduced us and was best man at our wedding - and I love his parties but for one thing: The Fog.

Best Man is a confirmed bachelor and lives with a bunch of other guys in a shared house in which they all smoke. When they have parties, somewhere around thirty people will be in this house most of whom will be smoking - the air is thick with it. It bothers me at the best of times, being asthmatic, but I try not to be a party pooper and nip off to the bathroom with my inhaler whenever it gets too much.

Anyway, this year, I will be 10 weeks pregnant and so I definitely don't want to be breathing in all that smoke, all night. Long story short, there was an, erm, heated discussion - DH clearly thinks I'm being over dramatic about it; he feels that as it is just one night it isn't going to do the baby any harm.

I'm 100% not going to the party. The end. But I am interested to know what your take on it is - am I being over the top? Would you go??