In light of all the debate recently, I've been thinking a lot about why the marketplaces are failing and I keep circling back to the lack of participation by everyone. Not enough healthy-ish people on the exchanges, which then drives up the costs, ultimately. I only know 3 people who are open about being uninsured. I feel like their situations are a glimpse into some unsolved issues?

- A self-employed man in his early 30s. According to him, self-employment means high taxes and not qualifying for enough subsidies. He has no children. He doesn't do any drs appts, and when he injured his foot, he didn't go to a dr. He was in pain for 4-6 months, hobbling around.

- A woman who retired at 63 and is waiting to be eligible for Medicare at age 65. She is eligible for insurance through her husband's plan but it would cost $700 a month. She has had skin cancer twice in her 50s and DCIS at age 62. She got a "clean bill of health" before retiring.

- A SAHM of 3, early 30s. All 3 kids are on Medicaid due to low income, I don't know why she doesn't qualify but AZ is stingy. They *could* afford health insurance, she says, but she would rather use the money for other things. They are debt free other than their 15-year mortgage, and have "healthy savings." Plus, she says that in her experience, by being a cash-only, uninsured patient, she has been able to negotiate her (rare) medical bills.

All 3 says that the tax penalty is much less than the annual premiums would be, and that's their default explanation for their choice.

I'm interested in hearing other stories, as a way of becoming more informed and compassionate on this topic. Who do you know that is uninsured? Why? Have you gone through a period of being uninsured, or are you now, and would you like to share? How can we improve healthcare access for all, in a way that ideally respects individual autonomy? Or should we not allow individuals the choice, because uncompensated medical care hurts us all?