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It doesn't bother me at all. I think people say it without thinking. Obviously the husband knows he is not physically pregnant - and I don't think that my husband is belittling my suffering if he says it.

Now "we are in labor" would get a swift kick, but that's the only time I think I would mind the "we" usage with the whole pregnancy experience.

I don't like it, but we will see it my mind changes when the time comes.

I don't mind "we are having a baby" though.