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Settling for a second choice name

  1. lamariniere

    pineapple / 12566 posts

    For my DS, I got both names that I wanted, but they were both DH's middle names, so he was fine with it.

    For DD, we just couldn't agree. DH suggested DD's name, but it wasn't his first choice as I didn't like his first choice. I do love our DD's name, it's just not what I originally wanted.

  2. swedishfish

    GOLD / coconut / 8266 posts

    @cascademom: @wonderstruck: Declan was my favorite boy name until my family ruined it. I'm over it now so it's back in the mix if we ever have a boy.

  3. Mrs. Lemon-Lime

    wonderful pea / 17279 posts

    @night cheese: I know some very successful Simons, but Henry is a winner too in my book between the two. Your husband's famiky is already honored with the middle name, so I'd leave ithe discussion alone for a little while. And then reserve the right to change your mind later.

  4. Tidybee

    nectarine / 2834 posts

    @night cheese: I've always wanted a Henry and DH vetoed it. I was kind of glad when DD came out and she was a girl because I didn't LOVE our boy name. DH didn't love my #1 choice for girl so we compromised. I love my DD's name but we've already agreed that DD #2 (if ever!) will have my top choice name because I still long to have a daughter with that name.

  5. avivoca

    watermelon / 14467 posts

    @Sapphiresun: I know a Zachary that is extremely adamant about being called his full name (he's seven). So it may work out that your LO's may prefer to be called by the full name too.

  6. wonderstruck

    pomegranate / 3791 posts

    @avivoca: Yeah, that's true! When I was a kid I would scowl at and then correct anyone who shortened my name to Court, and that included family members! My mom never even had to say anything, I would just pipe up and say, "I don't know who you're talking to, because that's not my name." Sometime's my dad's family would try to argue, pointing out how it was my name just shortened, and I'd say, "Nope, my parent's did not name me Court, they named me Courtney and I like that name!" I think I was about 6 when I started correcting people like that, haha.

  7. Arden

    honeydew / 7589 posts

    I'd recommend tabling the discussion and not deciding anything until birth. My husband flat out vetoed my middle name choice, Wren, so we were planning on a totally different name. But then she was born, and DH said "She's totally a Wren." And he LOVES it now.

    So you never know.

  8. SugarplumsMom

    bananas / 9227 posts

    The name I fell in love with and hoped to name my daughter ended up being a family member's middle name. I did not want to make her a namesake. It's also a very common name around these parts and I do not like he way they pronounce it. The hassle behind it would have been too much, and so I said goodbye and chose a different name. I have absolutely no regrets! I'm actually very glad I let go because knowing what I know now, it really, really would have bothered me if I stuck with it.

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