For any event, birthdays, dinners, parties, showers etc.

My group of friends at church started doing evites for all the showers we throw the women in our church and for some reason I hate it!! I always think it's nice and special for the mom-to-be to have special invites. I think it's a little tacky honestly to send out evites for showers. But that's just my opinion.
I am also crafty and love to DIY so I'd love to make them. But now that there has been at least 5 baby showers where evites were sent out, I feel like if I tried to change it - someone might think it's not fair?? idk..