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@mrs. wagon: I'm like you in that I identify mostly with being American. But I find as I get older, I do crave the connection to my parent's culture more and wish it for my kids. I think my views on parenting and education are also influenced a lot by my parents' culture (for better or for worse). I also spent many summers in Asia and am married to a 1.5'er, so I have gotten some exposure. We definitely want the kids to have extended stays overseas with family. I would say 80/20 for me?

I definitely identified more as Korean (or Korean-American) as I got older, even though my husband is not Korean, or even Asian. My parents tried - they sent me to Korean school, made me watch the Korean dramas, had my grandparents living with us part of the year, etc. But my friends were all non-Asian. I didn't visit Korea at all as a kid and finally visited 2 years ago when I was forced to due to a family death. DH ended up loving it as much as I did, as much as we totally didn't fit in, and we've gone a few times since then! We eat Korean food probably most days of the week, as it works much better for our food allergies/intolerances and plan to raise our future LO speaking Korean even though it means DH will have to learn Korean. That said...if you walked into my home you'd never know a Korean person lived here. Not until you opened my pantry and saw all the Korean food!

I definitely identify a lot with my culture and ethnicity, but it's really easy to do so growing up in SoCal. My parents were really strict with me, so I do speak fluently (Mandarin) as well as understand about 50% of my mother's sides dialect (Taiwanese). Growing up I always preferred a lot of Asian foods over American fast-foods/frozen foods/snacks my mom would try to give me. But it's not just Chinese culture and foods, because I grew up with mostly Koreans and some Japanese and Vietnamese as other Asians, so in that way there was a lot of diversity and exposure.
I definitely LOVE going back to my parents' home country (Taiwan) even though I was born in the U.S. I finally went to China last year and that was a MAJOR culture shock, even for me. I knew I was TRULY an American in that regards! And they never mistake me for a native in any of the Asian countries we have visited. It is very clear we are Americans! I would say I am about 65% American 35% Chinese/Asian overall.
DH is a bit older than me and grew up in a slightly less diverse city, so I would say he is a bit more American than I am. In fact, I always joke to him and say "You are NOT a white guy from The South!" because he went to school in the south and likes to start talking with a twang and accent!

Well my parents speak Spanish to us (even though they speak English) and our family pretty much still follows Mexican traditions for holidays. We celebrate Christmas on Christmas Eve, open gifts at midnight and don't really do much on Christmas day. We leave our Christmas tree up until three kingsmen day (January 6th.)

My mom always cooked Mexican meals growing up - every single day. She is an awesome cook. So I didn't have/try certain foods until I was older and started going out to eat with friends and so on.. like pasta (what first comes to mind.)

At our family parties you hear the parents (aunts and uncles) speaking in Spanish and the kids (myself and cousins) speaking English.

Growing up they were a lot stricter with myself than they were with my brother - because he is a Male. Also, I didn't move out (and probably wouldn't have been allowed to!) until the day I got married which was 23!

My parents watch tv in Spanish, novelas & growing up I watched a few of my own, hehe.

I do listen to some Spanish music (mostly rock bands) and can watch tv, movies in Spanish. Also, have read plenty of books in the language.

I had a Quinceanera when I turned 15.

However, I have never been any further into Mexico than Baja California.

I'm not exactly sure what percentage I would say I identify with my culture but I would say my MEXICAN-AMERICAN identity is pretty even.

I don't think the two percentages have to add up to 100%. Mine add up to 200%!

That said, I think there's a difference between nationality and culture. Nationality wise, I am totally American. Culture wise, it's a more complicated story.

@JustlikeHeaven: Ditto...to a tee...