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Nope, I wanted girls and he wanted a boy. He did tell me that he was secretly happy when we found out we were having a girl.

I think he was team blue just to spite me.

We both wanted a girl, but we didn't talk about it because we felt guilty for having a preference. But we got a girl!

I wanted a girl but was convinced we were having a boy., he wanted a boy...we got a girl & he says he wouldn't change a thing, that he's now glad she is a girl Someone is already wrapped around her finger!

I kept my gender preference secret from my DH until we found out. I thought it was irrelevant since it's not something we could control and honestly I wanted a healthy baby more than a boy or girl. But when we found out it was a boy I felt comfortable confessing to DH that's what I wanted all along and I was trying to psyche myself up just in case it was a girl. DH had been all excited for a girl (we thought for SURE it was a girl), but he eventually also admitted he always wanted it to be a boy! I guess we kept it from each other!

DH really wants a boy and until recently I really wanted a girl. I don't know if he's rubbing off on me or if it was something I read. Fathers of sons have deceased risk of divorce because they connect to boys better than girls. Too many hens in the house drive men away?

I initially wanted a girl and he wanted a boy, then the second time around neither of us cared though I may have had a slight boy preference and he may have had a slight girl preference. We love our babies!

he really wants a boy, I switch back and forth. I feel like having a boy would be easier in a way, we already have a name, i'm more drawn to boy things outfits and decor. But it would be awesome to have a girl, i had 3 friends who had girls last spring so they are ready to give me all their hand me downs and she would have 3 built in best friends.

We want one of each, but I wanted a girl first, and the hubby wanted a boy first. Hubby won.

Not at all. But we both wanted a boy first, which we have. He did want another boy but I didn't care either way. I think we're both happy with having one of each now.

He really wants a girl so I feel like that has made me want to introduce the idea of a boy more! I just don't want him to be disappointed if we find out it's a boy, so I'm trying to trying to refer it as "he" to get him used to the idea. I honestly don't have a preference either way.

He really wanted a girl and was scared to have a boy. Because of that, I wanted to have a girl, but only for him. I really was just excited to be having a baby, for a long time I thought it wouldn't happen at all.

I really wanted a girl but when I found out DH wanted a boy I started hoping the baby was a boy - so much so, I was actually quite taken aback when the u/s tech said the baby was a girl! Over the next few days, as it sunk in, all my longing for a girl bubbled up to the surface and I was so excited!!!