For example, if I'm 11w3d and someone asks, I never know if I should say 11 weeks or 12 weeks. What do/did you say?
For example, if I'm 11w3d and someone asks, I never know if I should say 11 weeks or 12 weeks. What do/did you say?
pomegranate / 3917 posts
I used to round to whatever week I was closer to! Saturday's are my milestone day, so on like Wednesday of each week I would start rounding up to the next one in my head or if anyone asked!!
Once I got closer to 30w I stopped doing that and always said what milestone I had already hit, perhaps I was in denial how quickly time was going at that point
GOLD / squash / 13464 posts
I say the number of weeks I have completed. So in your example I would say I'm 11 weeks.
clementine / 961 posts
I would say the number of weeks I had completed but if I was a day or two from my switchover day then I would round up. Now when people ask I say how many weeks I have left. I'm 36 weeks today but if someone asks me on Tuesday how far along I am I will round up and say I have 3 weeks left.
pineapple / 12793 posts
I round up or down depending on where in the week I am. But I find when people ask how many months I am that it gets confusing - I'm done with my sixth month, but due in just over four...
GOLD / squash / 13464 posts
@oliviaoblivia: I also get so confused when people ask me how many months I am! Because everyone assumes pregnancy is 9 months but it's really 10 months!
hostess / watermelon / 14932 posts
@oliviaoblivia: @MamaMoose: Well technically it is 9 months, because some months have more or less days. For instance the first day of my lmp was Dec 20..so Dec to Jan, Jan to Feb etc gives me 9 months at September 20...& I'm due Sept 25
I also give how many weeks I've completed or round if I'm close!
grapefruit / 4006 posts
i just round up or round down. so for you, i'd say 11 weeks
for months, now i count back from my due date. So Nov 1 is my due date and that would be 9 months, so today, i'm about 7.5 months along. but earlier in the pregnancy when i was closer to the conception date, then i'd count forward from the date of LMP. So i think mine was Jan 25...if someone asked me on Apr 25, i'd say 3 months.
GOLD / wonderful coffee bean / 18478 posts
I tell them the week that I am in. Months are confusing!
wonderful pear / 26210 posts
I could have literally said anything, most people ask but aren't really going to remember the facts anyway. I bet I could have said things like "banana" with the blank stares I got!
pomegranate / 3983 posts
In your example, for someone knowledgeable I would say 11 weeks, otherwise I would say "just about 3 months" because people that don't know much about pregnancy seem to have a better understanding of that.
hostess / wonderful honeydew / 32460 posts
I give the week I'm in. or I'll just tell them months.
hostess / wonderful watermelon / 39513 posts
I usually say the week I'm in but I round up a week when if over 3 days in the week.
pomegranate / 3872 posts
I always round up. I'm showing a lot so it makes me feel better. I'm 18 weeks now so I've been saying 'just about halfway through!' haha.
apricot / 427 posts
I've always gone with the week I've completed. So for example, I'm 35w5d today so I'd say I'm 35 weeks.
pomelo / 5331 posts
I round up or say I'll be xx on xx date. Like when people asked me on Friday how far along I was, I'd say "5 months on sunday" (and I started using months rather than weeks because people stare at me blankly when I give them the week lol).
coconut / 8475 posts
I started saying the month because people don't seem to "get" weeks.
bananas / 9973 posts
I round to the closest week. Or sometimes I will just make a general estimate like at 14-15 weeks I'd say "around 3 1/2 months". People get confused by the weeks, heck, even we all do and we're the pregnant ones! lol!
squash / 13764 posts
I say the week that I am in...I find that the month thing is confusing, because right now I am in my 8th month, but if I say that to people, they think I am 8 full months pregnant. SO I just do weeks, or I say "I'm due in October!" lol.
cantaloupe / 6610 posts
I usually just say about how many months. I learned early on that most people, including DH, cannot process weeks anyway. I would tell him how many weeks, and then someone would ask him how far along I was, and he would get all jumbled and give really scientific answers like, "She's in her first mester." So we had to make it easier for him and I noticed that it made sense to regular people too.
So right now, I'm just over 28 weeks, and so I'll say 7 months. When I hit 29 weeks, I'll start saying "about 7.5 months" and will stick with that for a while:)
cantaloupe / 6610 posts
@hilsy85: Yeah that is true...I'll say 7 months, and then people are like "Oh! Just 2 more months!" But it's actually a little under 3 more months, so then I have to explain that - and it can get exhausting. But if I say "28 weeks," then people will say "how many months is that?" So basically it's a catch-22!
persimmon / 1453 posts
@jholler25: Same here! I stay vague and go by months. About six months, over seven months, etc.. I figure it's not an exact science, and only recent moms are interested in the weeks anyway.
wonderful grape / 20453 posts
In your case, I'd say "i'm 11 weeks". Because you aren't quite 12 yet--you can say you're "almost 12". But I consider saying, "i'm 12 weeks" to say you've surpassed the 12-week mark. If i'm shy by one day, I may round up...
I always get SUPER confused by those stupid apps that send me 12 week notifications when i hit 11 weeks, though!
honeydew / 7916 posts
Just out of curiosity, has weeks always been the standard? Trying to figure out why the general public seems to be so unfamiliar with it.
coconut / 8681 posts
It depends when in the week I am but I usually round up! I'm 35w4d now but if someone asked me I'd say 36
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