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God no. And if anyone asks me, no matter who they are, my answer will be "That is a very personal question" and a glare to teach them not to ask anyone else.
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Yikes! I guess I'm in the bad! Usually people always just ask casually like "we're/are you guys trying?" and it seems a very common question. I would only ask friends though that you talk about everything with anyways.
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Never. I can't believe people ask this! My husband's client asked him, 'Are you guys happy about it?' when he told her and that is kind of the same but almost worse! We are married, in our late 20s, gainfully employed, never said we didn't want children - why they heck wouldn't we be happy about it and why would we tell you if for some reason we weren't???
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@Arden: I wish I responded with that! I was at a wedding on Saturday and a bunch of not close friends asked me if my current pregnancy was planned...which led to lots of comments about me being like a jackrabbit, etc.
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I've never asked anybody is their baby was planned. I would be too embarrassed since that questions kind of implies I'm thinking about their sex life.
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I would ask my very close friends if I didn't already know the answer, but never anyone else.
This is literally the first question every single person asked us, it was really surprising and sort of irritating! I guess in my family's defense, I had been telling them all it wouldn't be for a few more years because I didn't want to hear questioning, so they were surprised. But still. And complete strangers, really?? I am always surprised at what people ask/say.
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I got asked this this weekend, and I replied, "Very much so." That said, I just think it's an odd question to ask, especially to someone like me who's been married multiple years, in my 30's, etc. Unless I've stated that I am never having kids, and I'm in a stable relationship I don't understand why this would even be asked. Luckily, I like this person a lot (we're not close friends but I like her), so I didn't care. I actually hated the "When are you having kids? Why don't you have kids yet?" questions much worse. My prospective reproductive plans are not anyone's business.
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Nope because we're at the age where it seems right to have babies. And for those that aren't, I don't ask. Seems rude to!
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we get asked this all the time. it's like people don't know what else to say?
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Ooops, I've asked this to my sister-in-law! I didn't realize how rude it was! She didn't seem offended at least!
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a guy I worked with asked me this. I was shocked... so rude!
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No, I think it's really, really rude. I had a couple people ask me and I had no idea how to respond.
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