I feel like such a loser because I haven't figured this out and I'm about to be 36 weeks. DD is 2. The people I feel comfortable asking (brother/SIL, close friends) all live an hour away. I'm worried that is too far. My parents will be driving up when I'm in labor to watch LO while I'm in the hospital but they are 8 hours away.

So far my thoughts are LO's in home daycare provider or our next door neighbor with a 4 year old. I'm not worried about LO in either case but I feel awkward asking.

Who did your LO stay with? How far away is too far?