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The teenagers are to blame, they are old enough (and I'm sure informed enough) about what htey are doing and the damage it could cause. HOWEVER, I do think parents need to be aware of what their teenagers are doing online, if you are paying the phone bill you have a right to know what is going on. In the world of technology you have to be aware of what your kids are up too, as well as making sure they aren't being bullied (or being a bully.)

The kids and the school. I think I read the school knew that is was going on?

I dont think the parents are at fault because its not clear that they KNEW their children were doing this. If they did and didn't stop it, then I do think they are partially to blame.

@blackbird: I agree. Kids are at fault, but parents are responsible for their kids (I am not saying it is easy, but the *I didn't know* defense only goes so far . . . somebody has to be accountable!) How a child turns out is not all *nurture* . . . !

@MrsTiz: I agree. As a teenager there was a lot of stuff I was able to do that my parents had no idea. I had my own cell phone that I paid for (not on my parents plan) so there was no way they could access who I texted/called/etc. I wasn't a devious child, but I did things they wouldn't approve of (what teen doesnt?!).

I don't think I can fully judge without knowing the parent's. Although I plan to put restrictions/limits on computer time, we all know that kids can hide very well. Even the most attentive and involved parent could be bested by a teen purposefully trying to cause trouble.

Kids are definitely to blame.