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Would you buy a house near your in-laws?

  1. pl0508

    GOLD / grapefruit / 4007 posts

    NO

  2. Ra

    honeydew / 7586 posts

    Not even if the house was free.

  3. Sweet T

    pomelo / 5321 posts

    No. No. No. If/when we move back home, we'll be 4 hours from FIL and an hour or two from MIL. If it weren't for my family living there, we'd probably consider living further away. I don't want to give MIL any chances to just "stop by."

  4. jhd

    coconut / 8079 posts

    No. I love them, but no. Also they live in a town smaller than ours so I would never want to live there anyway.

  5. runsyellowlites

    coconut / 8305 posts

    NO WAY!

    On the flipside we're getting a house directly next door to MY mom! lol. Her & DH have a good relationship though & she has healthy boundaries! She currently lives a block over (at the ministry home we have) and she minds her business! I like being close though b/c G goes & stays there often (he just walks over) & I work for her so it makes for easy meetings & touching base!

  6. travellingbee

    hostess / papaya / 10219 posts

    Um Nope, definitely not. But I also don't want to live next door to my parents either.

  7. MrsKoala

    cantaloupe / 6869 posts

    DH bought a house 2 miles from his parents in the first year of our relationship so we're kind of stuck that close to them for at least the next 5 or 6 years.

  8. avivoca

    watermelon / 14467 posts

    My MIL would respect our boundaries, but my SIL would not. Her kids run all over, she comes in and takes groceries, etc. I could not handle that. My mom wouldn't respect them either. Sometimes I feel like living 45 minutes away is too close. My ideal is a couple of hours away.

  9. Sadieloo

    kiwi / 726 posts

    I wouldn't, but that's because we have big boundary issues with my MIL. Not to mention she lives too far from the city (there are def some god things about h living 2.5 hrs Away). that sud, I am slightly scared that she will be on our doorstep with her suitcases the second our son (her first grandchild) is born.

  10. SugarplumsMom

    bananas / 9227 posts

    Pre-baby, no way. Post baby, I'd actually think about it! They're great with DD and getting a break every so often would be nice. Plus they're really into gardening and their yard is literally manicured. But I know it could have it's downsides too.

    They live an hour away from us, and I used to think it was just the right distance (we actually only saw houses within a certain proximity from them) but now with DD, sometimes I think it's a little far. But just saying that is jinxing myself for something, so I have to say it's perfect as it is!

  11. blackbird

    wonderful grape / 20453 posts

    Hellllllls naw. I like my MIL but its too close for me!!

  12. lilteacherbee

    cantaloupe / 6791 posts

    I would. We used to live 5 minutes from them and they never stopped by all the time or unannounced. They let us decide when we wanted to see them and we usually went to their house.

    Now, MY parents? That would be a no. My mom's entire family lives on one street so she's used to just popping in whenever. That coupled with the fact that she drives me nuts when I'm around her for too long would be a very bad situation!

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