I'm having some trouble with my thirst trimester libido :/. I would really like to enjoy my last few weeks of being able to have sex before the long 6 week PP no sex period. I'm actually in the mood alot more during this trimester then my previous trimesters but actually having sex is so complicated. My belly is so big that most positions are awkward or hurt. Last night we attempted and it lasted a whole 4 mintues :/. The only position I see actually working is painful for me and has been since delivering DS. Am I the only one that does not enjoy 3rd trimester sex? It seems impossible to enjoy at this point. When did you stop having sex? My poor DH still wants to but doesn't push me to and has let me come to him which hasn't happened much in the past few weeks.
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I knoooow....I want to have sex too but logistically and physically it is super difficult. We still try though! Last night it hurt like heck and DH was like "I can't stay focused with all those pained faces and cringing your doing!" but I couldn't help it.
I say stick to it...better than nothing:) and there are other ways to be pleased too;) but if you're like me : you want it all the way. I get it:/
We only have like 5+ weeks and the 6pp so maybe it's. It so bad? Who knows the 6ww may fly by because you might not be in the mood during those 6w anyways -
Ehhhhh. We’re still doing it but not very often (1-2 times per week) and it’s really uncomfortable most of the time. Anddd my heartburn gets REALLY bad afterward…every time. I’ve kept up with it though for DH and because I do love having that connection with him. I’m not sure we’ll continue all the way through until the end though!
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Someone suggested a position that we had never tried before but it was really fun/avoided belly squashing.
Basically you lay on your back with your legs up a little, and DH will lay sideways and on his side (so you guys are sort in a t shape. And your legs are draped over him. Give it a try if you haven't already!
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@highwire: We'll have to try that. Thanks
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