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Change in Work Status During Pregnancy or w/Baby?

  • poll: Did pregnancy/baby change your work status?
    Nope. Worked full time until close to my due date/delivery, returned full time post baby. : (55 votes)
    50 %
    Worked full time until close to my due date/delivery, dropped to part time post baby. : (21 votes)
    19 %
    Worked full time until close to my due date/delivery, SAH post baby. : (12 votes)
    11 %
    Dropped to part time more than a month before due date, returned to work full time post baby. : (0 votes)
    Dropped to part time more than a month before due date, returned to part time post baby. : (3 votes)
    3 %
    Dropped to part time more than a month before due date, SAH post baby. : (3 votes)
    3 %
    Stopped working more than a month before due date, returned to work full time post baby. : (2 votes)
    2 %
    Stopped working more than a month before due date, returned to work part time. : (1 votes)
    1 %
    Stopped working more than a month before due date, SAH post baby. : (12 votes)
    11 %
  1. blackbird

    wonderful grape / 20453 posts

    @jetsa: ugh. Benefits are such a dealbreaker for me. 36 hours would still be better than 40 lol! Half days on Friday!

  2. jetsa

    grapefruit / 4663 posts

    @blackbird: oh I have my benefits! They're a dealbreaker for me too. I think they're allowing me to not follow the manual because they're afraid I'll quit I dont work Fridays lol, we ran the #s for me to work on Fridays is pointless bc we'd have to pay for full time daycare instead of part time

  3. fussygal

    pomegranate / 3580 posts

    I worked FT (from home) until a week before my due date, 16 weeks off, then returned at PT (60%). I've been PT for five months and it's a great balance for our family. I think my employers are ok with me staying PT for as long as I need, although we've never discussed how long and I fear it will come up at my review next week.

  4. blackbird

    wonderful grape / 20453 posts

    @jetsa: ha then that's a win! I think I'll do shortened days mon-thurs and half days Fridays for awhile....I'm up for whatever and DH thought that would be easier than full time mon-thurs

  5. My Only Sunshine

    persimmon / 1129 posts

    @fussygal: I know what you mean! I'm part time too (30 hours/week) and finally had the discussion a few months ago with my employer that I'd like to keep doing PT indefinitely. Originally I thought I would do it a year then go back full time, but my working part time has worked so well for our family that I really have no desire to go back full time.

  6. Mamasig

    pomegranate / 3565 posts

    I worked FT until I delivered, took 12 weeks of maternity leave, and back to FT after. In a perfect world, I wish I could work 30 hours a week for the same pay!

  7. yellowbird

    honeydew / 7303 posts

    @Mamasig: that would be my ideal too!!

  8. Mae

    papaya / 10343 posts

    I worked full time until 41 weeks pregnant. But unfortunately I lost my job at that point (very sudden/unexpected) and I haven't found a job yet. So I've been SAH for the last 7.5 mo.

  9. ShootingStar

    coconut / 8472 posts

    None of your options in the poll fit me. I worked full time until about 2 weeks before my due date when I got put on bed rest. Then I went back to work full time after maternity leave.

    I found pretty much all of my healthcare providers were pretty...disrespectful? about the fact that I had to work. I was asked occasionally if I had stopped working during pregnancy (uh no, need my paycheck to live, I don't work for fun :-/) and I was expected to drop everything to see them any time of day. They always made me feel like crap that I valued not getting fired.

  10. MapleMoose

    grapefruit / 4213 posts

    I worked full time at the office right up until my due date. I was induced 10 days later but had stopped working on my due date. I now work part-time from home nights and weekends and care for LO during the weekdays.

  11. LBee

    pomegranate / 3895 posts

    I was on hospital bed rest at 33 weeks and then on modified bed rest at home (working part time as I have a sedentary job) from 35 weeks on. I returned to work FT, but I changed to working from home two afternoons a week.

    I worked PT up until the day I delivered (c-section). Had I not been on the bed rest, I would have been working FT.

  12. LuLu Mom

    GOLD / wonderful olive / 19030 posts

    I worked Friday, got induced on that next Monday. Took 12 weeks off and returned fulltime after that.

  13. lilyofthewest

    pear / 1697 posts

    @ShootingStar: I get some of this to. My care providers schedule the next visit at the current one (up until they are weekly, then they just set them for the same day & time each week).

    I'd rather not use my vacation or sick time at all for midwife appointments, but they don't seem to get that if I'm using leave for non-urgent reasons I have to schedule it at least 6wks in advance.

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