I went to my OB today (in my 6th week) for what I thought was an appointment with the nurse and then bloodwork. Really, it was just paperwork with the receptionist and bloodwork. They said they like to schedule first time moms with a nurse appointment, but when my schedule conflicted with the first date they offered, they said we should just focus on making the OB appointments. So, my next appointment is at 12 weeks, which will be the first time I meet the OB or nurse. This seems late for a variety of reasons. I mean my only instruction for the entire trimester was, "Don't eat fish more than twice a week and heat up all processed meat. Call us if you need a prescription for prenatals or for mornig sickness."
Is this actually late for a first appointment? If I meet the OB and we don't click, at what point does it become difficult to find an OB who will let you switch to them? Am I freaking out unnecessarily?