Did you prefer being Team Green or finding out?
DH and I are having a very hard time deciding whether we want to find out.
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I don't have one that I've preferred more than the other so far. I was TG with LO1 and we just found out LO2 is a girl. It's exciteing to know and I can buy her cute stuff that I couldn't do last time but it isn't game changing like, "I can do all this stuff I couldn't do last time" So I really have no preference one way or the other.
We found out for LO1, I thought it might help him bond more, who knows.
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@jetsa: That's really helpful! I feel like no matter which way I go I guess it's not a bad choice, but I definitely don't want to wish for the other choice.
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We were TG initially last time, and I was really surprised what a difference it made in bonding with the baby when we found out she was a girl. I didn't think it would really matter, but it was night and day different in how "real" she felt.
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We were TG with the first and found out with the second. From the moment we found out with our second I wished we were TG! You can't un-find out but if you decide later on that you want to know you can. If we have a third then I definitely want to go TG again.
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We found out for our first and are currently team green for our second. I would have gone team green for both because I loooooooove the anticipation/surprise aspect, but DH wouldn't go for it. Since we are two and through, I convinced him to go Team Green this time. We would be thrilled with a girl or a boy, so bonding hasn't been an issue for us, but I can see how it would make it easier.
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