This is a little long... sorry in advance! My original due date was Dec 14, but my Dr. adjusted it to the 21st after looking at my history of only having a cycle every 2-3 months my entire life (except the 3 months leading to my BFP in which I was right on time.) I went in last Friday because I was having major cramping but nothing that was "timeable" if that makes sense. Everything checked out Ok and after the visit I started to bleed and pretty sure I lost my mucus plug on Saturday. It took everything in me not to call the dr because he said a little bleeding would be normal (plus the nurse made me feel guilty for coming in just for cramping... she acted like I was being a baby.)

At my appt on Tuesday the midwife casually mentions that at my 21 week ultrasound they moved my due date from Dec 21 to the 16 but never bothered to tell me. I know the dates are all relative but come on! I see a different dr or midwife at every appointment and I feel like the communication is off. Also at my appt. on Tuesday, the midwife quickly checked the heartbeat which was great, leaves the room as if the appt is over, then comes back in and says "oh yeah I should probably check to see if you've dilated any more." Ummm ok.

Now, last night every time I got up to go pee I had a very small gush (actually not really a gush but it semi-soaked a pantyliner) tinged with a little bit of blood. I don't think my water broke and I'm not having contractions, but I'm torn on if I should call. They said I would see some spotting and that it would be normal, but maybe this is something different? I just have a pit in my stomach about calling the office about it because they make me feel like I'm being a paranoid pregnant lady! I feel like I should wait until I have a true gush of water and contractions. I'm praying for something concrete that my body does to say "hey lady you are in labor, get to the hospital!!"

When you were close to your due date did you feel paranoid about every little thing? Did you hesitate on calling your dr. and just wait it out?