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People have no filter. Sorry you were in that situation. Clearly something is wrong with her, too.
You've already done the first step, which is the hardest: admitting you need help. It gets better from here. Hugs. You are amazing, and we are here for you.
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Enough with these breast nazis. How dare that woman think that her comment was at all called for, appropriate, or helpful - absolutely ridiculous.
As someone else who was unable to breastfeed, I'm about six seconds away from drop kicking my computer or flying to the UK and tracking down that douche waffle.
Stay strong, girl. You're a wonderful woman and a fantastic mother. I'm proud of you for reaching out in order to get the help you need and deserve.
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What a horrible insufferable woman! I can't believe she said that to you. FUCK her!
I'm so so sorry you're going through this. Big hugs. I'm glad you are finally recognizing it and on the path to getting help. hugs.
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I'm so, so sorry lady. I am also dealing with PPD and PPanxiety as well. I really hope the doctor can do something for you- it's amazing how much better you can feel with the right treatment. Feel free to message me if you need a chat.
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I'm glad you're reaching out to get help. I'm going to therapy for PPA (though I think really the A has been going on for a lot longer...) which I hope will help.
If you want to chat ever, I'm here
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@MsLipGloss: summed up my thoughts and feelings pretty much perfectly.
I'm so sorry that you had to deal with that awful witch. I can't believe that anyone would have the nerve to say anything so nasty to any other women (or anyone, period). You're an amazing Mama, and I hope that 3 pages of comments make it clear that we all think that.
I'm glad you are seeking help, but fuck her. What a self-righteous cunt.
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@Cherrybee: what a bitch. You are strong for getting help. Good luck we are rooting for you!
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Agree with all the PPs on here. She must be a miserable miserable woman who needed to make someone feel exactly the way she is feeling. I can't believe anyone would think that was appropriate to say. How sweet of your husband to reach out to the office. You've got a good one!!
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First off, if I had heard that cow say that I would've gone all Real Housewives of New Jersey and thrown a piece of furniture at her.
Secondly, you are the perfect mother for E. You were picked just for her, and she for you. There is absolutely no shame in getting help for PPD so that you can be the best version of yourself, both for you and for E. I have been there, and it was so hard for me to admit. Happily, the admission was the hardest part. I am rooting for you! Sending you so much love right now!
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My heart goes out to you! So sorry that happened and I think you are brave to get help.
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@deerylou: omg douche waffle.
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Oh I wish I could give you a giant hug right now. I promise, you will start to feel so much better very soon, and I'm proud of you for reaching out for help.
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She was wrong. Period. You're a great mama to that sweet girl. I hope the doctor can get you the help you need & you start feeling better!
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What a fucking bitch. Cunt punt indeed. I'm so so sorry. I actually cried at your reaction to her tutting. I have the mind to fly myself over there and hunt her down. Honestly, do not feel badly about formula. My husbands two oldest boys are 6 and 9 and they were both exclusively formula fed and they are such little joys, and they are soooo smart and sooo healthy. I promise you you're doing right by your daughter.
My husband was completely disgusted by that whore. He also said cunt punt was his new favourite phrase... Uh oh.
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She's a moron. Period. You know what's best for babies? To be raised by respectful, loving, compassionate people. I feel sorry for her grandchild.
I'm happy you're going to start feeling better soon! You're a great mama, and I'm glad you're taking care of yourself and that sweet little baby.
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What a total asshole. She's disgusting.
I denied ppd for a long time. I actually felt better once I admitted it (well a little bit after) I'm wishing you all the best
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I can't stop thinking about this... I can't believe she didn't even react or understand why you were crying...imagine if all us HBers rocked up in the waiting room... She'd be scared!!! Lol
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How could she be so heartless?! It's all been said already but what a bitch she is, and what an amazing mama you are! Proud of you for admitting the stiff upper lip can sometimes wobble and seeking the help. Sending you more transatlantic hugs
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I wonder if she was breastfed. I know there was a generation way back in nineteen dickety two where the doctors pushed formula onto new moms. For example, DH's grandma formula fed all her children because her doctor told her it was better than breastmilk. So there is a great chance that she was formula fed....douchebucket.
Don't feel bad about any of your parenting choices. And I am so happy you are able to recognize and accept your PPD. Hugs
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@Cherrybee: Oh.my.lord. Seriously?? If I *ever* overheard someone saying such things to another mom, they would RUE THE DAY. RUE.THE.DAY. >:|
I also wanted to give you huge hugs after reading your mommy group story. I totally felt you, though - that situation has my name written alllllll over it.
I can only echo what everyone else has said - you're a terrific mama doing right by her baby. You're beyond amazing and brave and courageous for recognizing that something may not be right and taking the steps to remedy that.
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i'm glad you're getting help, but so sorry that a horrible mean B pushed you to the edge like that. i EBF my kid, but i could give a f&%$ how you feed yours and i would have probably started crying for you had i overheard and then i would have either a) calmly pulled her aside and told her that in no way were her words or actions appropriate, especially for a grown woman or b) verbally assaulted her back after making sure my child was out of range.
i'm fuming for you! keep fighting for your babe and for you! LO needs a healthy mama more than anything else! xoxo
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@deerylou: douche waffle. I'm dying over here!
@cherrybee: I'm sorry
i think everyone else has given you so much encouragement, I don't know what else to say other than I'm glad you're brave enough to get help I don't know that I would be!
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Wow, there are no words for what a horrible person she is.
You are amazing and doing such a great job of taking care of your girl.
I'm glad that you will be getting the help you need.Also, very awesome that your hubby made that call and has your back!!
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@cherrybee:
You're doing what's best, giving your baby all the love and proper care that you possibly can.
Shame on that woman and shame on the wonan she made the comment to for not speaking up to her. Bullies are terrible and it's too bad they didn't learn earlier in life to knock that shit off. Just shows how dense she is.I'm glad you're taking steps toward getting help, I know how hard that is. I had ppd with my first, but not with my second or third. Hugs to you, friend. You're doing a fabulous job
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Wow, just wow. All the swear words that have been used in this thread aren't enough to call that catty woman what she is!
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First of all EFF that stupid ninny of a woman. She is mean and not worth worrying about. Secondly I am so sorry that you continue to feel so depressed but I am so proud of you for getting some assistance. I also appreciate your sharing it as I think it helps people to feel less ashamed about it of we go through it too. Sending you hugs and hoping you are feeling like your old self very soon.
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@Cherrybee:
People can be so heartless and rude. To see you. In obvious distress and not only not try to comfort you, but to shame you?!?! The nerve of such people.I'm so sorry about the PPD but perhaps now that you've allowed yourself to go there and see it as a problem, you'll be able to get the support you need. I've read some of your other threads and it's clear how much you love E and are doing everything you can to do right by her. Those women were truly awful sanctimommies.
I hope you get the support you need from your doctor. I've got no experience with PPD but I've battled depression on and off for years. It's exhausting and has a way of sneaking into your life without you realizing. Best of luck you. Thoughts and prayers being sent your way.
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Aw, I'm so sorry you're struggling sweetie. Glad you're getting some help though and hope you feel better soon.
As for the woman's comments - what a B! How rude and inappropriate.
i think everyone else has given you so much encouragement, I don't know what else to say other than I'm glad you're brave enough to get help 
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