I'm expecting my second daughter and my mom keeps bringing up wanting to host a shower or sprinkle. I really don't want one but she's insisting that the baby needs to be celebrated. My weekends are swamped as it is so having to find a weekend for this sprinkle just stresses me out. Plus I really don't like showers. I was going to suggest that we wait until the baby is born and do a sip and see type of party. However, I've never been to one and have no idea what they entail or how they work. Looking for your experiences about these types of parties. Thanks!

Edit: what about germs? How do I not freak out about all those people (and their germs) being around a new baby?!