I'm 16.5 weeks pregnant and have no reason to believe that anything is wrong. I have a growing belly and had good doctor's visits at 6, 10, 12, and 13 weeks (it was supposed to be a 14 week appt, but due to work had to be done at 13 weeks). So I haven't been seen in 3.5 weeks and we don't have have our anatomy scan for another 2 weeks. I haven't gained much weight though (4 pounds but 3 were in the first 10 weeks) and can't stop feeling like I'm still waiting for the other shoe to drop. My boobs also have gotten much less sore in the past few days (I know, it's common for symptoms to fade in the second trimester....) I had a prior early miscarriage before this pregnancy and thought that was the cause of my worries during the first trimester. I did relax after the 12 week mark but now feel worried again. Why can't I stop feeling like something bad is going to happen??

When I called the doctor about my lack of weight gain, she said it wasn't a concern at all but that she would see me if I wanted. I felt silly for calling and like I was a needy patient so declined. Now I feel like I should just go in rather than keep worrying until my anatomy scan. Is this normal? If you were a worrier, how did you stop?