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@Radish:

Cop out with both. I was a tom boy in elementary school who still liked boys and shopping.

It's hard to say, I was a GG when I was really young, more of the sporty variety as a teen, and I guess a mix as an adult? I hope she loves traveling and cooking and hanging out with her mom.

Ideally both! I want her to watch sports with her dad (and play if she wants to!) and bake cookies and get pedis with me. But if I had to choose I guess I'd say tomboy. Girly girl sort of implies a pre-occupation with looks and I hope that we raise her to be confident and not worry (too much) about her appearance.

Nerdy! I don't wear make-up or paint my nails. DH and I actually oppose most organized sports for a variety of reasons. I hope she loves math, science and history. We're looking forward to taking her to the Ren Faire and SCA events. We'll teach her to play D&D when she's old enough.

I do think there is some value in teaching her to be feminine. That's something I feel like my parent's dropped the ball on.