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Were you one of the first, middle, or last

  1. rattles

    grapefruit / 4903 posts

    @petunia354: that was my experience too. It's so tough.

  2. BKCaribBaby

    pear / 1672 posts

    Middle for my group of friends. Definitely last for DH's college friends. Of his high school friends, only one has kids.

  3. buttermilk

    nectarine / 2086 posts

    First!! And I'm 29!

  4. JessKas

    pear / 1693 posts

    First for both my friends and DH's friends. I now have a few friends pregnant with their first, and a few of DH's friends are starting TTC. I'm pregnant with our second though...

  5. Mrs. High Heels

    blogger / eggplant / 11551 posts

    First for both of us. Most of my friends are just thinking about trying this year - 4+ years after we had our first.

  6. JennyLayneAZ

    nectarine / 2690 posts

    I will definitely be the last. We're all in our 30's now (I'm the youngest at 32) and my friends who are having babies did so already.

  7. lamariniere

    pineapple / 12566 posts

    First by a long shot and I had just turned 30 when LO1 was born!

  8. BandDmommy

    pomelo / 5660 posts

    last

  9. AprilFool

    nectarine / 2591 posts

    First and I was 31.

  10. 2littlepumpkins

    grapefruit / 4455 posts

    I know a lot of young moms but for my age group I'd still say I was one of the first. I was very young!

  11. Mrs.Pinecone316

    persimmon / 1316 posts

    I would say middle. We have a lot of friends who started having kids several years ago, a lot who are in the same boat as us and pregnant with their first or have a baby and some friends who are trying or getting married now so are a little ways away from kids.

  12. Tanjowen

    nectarine / 2521 posts

    Last. And I swear that somehow between my pregnancy and 15 months in to being a parent, all my friends have had 2 kids and are pregnant with the 3rd. I'm the turtle of the group in regards to babies

  13. MrsF

    honeydew / 7283 posts

    Pretty much the first

  14. MrsRcCar

    grapefruit / 4712 posts

    I would say first mostly I had N at 24.

  15. Finfan

    persimmon / 1436 posts

    Middle to early with high school friends and one of the first of my college friends (a few of us were pregnant around the same time and have birth within a few months of each other). A lot of my friends still don't have kids. I am 31.

  16. GoGoSnoGirl

    pear / 1558 posts

    Last... for now. Lots of my hs classmates had kids really early & some are even grandparents. I do have friends my age (AMA) who have babies or have been trying, so hopefully more will follow along behind me, too.

  17. Mrs. Lemon-Lime

    wonderful pea / 17279 posts

    We will be the last couple among my husband's friends. I will be the first among my friends. Most of my friends have long expressed no desire to become a parent. The rest are focused on career and their comfy marriages.

  18. megjay18

    cherry / 189 posts

    first. and now that we're having kid #2, some of them are starting to talk about having kid #1. we were ahead of the game, i guess!

  19. Andrea

    GOLD / wonderful coffee bean / 18478 posts

    First!

  20. MoreCoffee

    apricot / 320 posts

    Of my closest friends, I was the last. If I look at the wider circle of my friends both male and female, I was somewhere in the middle (at 35!).

  21. NovBaby1112

    grapefruit / 4066 posts

    @petunia354: same!

    First with both my friends and DHs friends even though he is 5 yrs older. I was 25 when I got pregnant with DD, and around here that is on the younger side. Lots of my friends now are still single and dating and no where near ready to have kids! One of our close couple friends is close to trying though.

  22. LauraBear

    cherry / 215 posts

    Of most of my hometown/college friends, I am one of the last (but I'm from Georgia). Of DH's friends and our in-common friends, we're the first (but we live in WA State). I'm 31 and DH is 30. First in both of our immediate families, though!

  23. Alivoo01

    wonderful olive / 19353 posts

    First and we were the 1st to be on #2. Might still be depending on when we conceive again, unless my BFF and I conceive together, then that'd be cool too.

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