Especially if you took a longer maternity leave or SAH for a while (Looking at you, Canadian Bees!).

We are 5 weeks in and IT EFFING SUCKS. The job is fine. It isn't that I'm sitting around missing my LO all day (I mean, I do, but that is totally manageable). But I feel like our life just sucks. LO isn't sleeping at daycare and is miserable. There is way too much to be done at home in way too little time. I feel like I do nothing but work, take care of LO, and do necessary tasks (packing lunches, laundry, etc).

I stayed home for 20 mo and I feel like I heard people say ALL THE TIME that being a SAHM was such a hard job and that things are easier when you work. HOW? Sort of think everyone is just full of it there. Because I still have to do all the same stuff but now I have a lot less time to do it and I have to do it with a toddler attached to me because she never sees me it feels like and she's velcro-clingy.

And if it never stops sucking? Tell me that too so I can at least stop waiting for it to stop sucking.