I may need to get induced tonight and I'm so worried. Any tips or advice?
I may need to get induced tonight and I'm so worried. Any tips or advice?
coffee bean / 45 posts
I haven't had my baby yet, so no personal experience, but I will tell you that you'll be fine and it'll all be worth it in the end. Try not to stress yourself out now or feel fear because that will make the experience harder for you later tonight. Just know that millions of women get induced and are totally fine and their babies are born and grow up healthy. You'll be in the hospital which is the best possible place, and you'll be surrounded by professionals that are there to keep you safe. Congratulations on your upcoming baby!!!
clementine / 958 posts
I was induced, and the best tip I received was to take the sleep aid meds I was offered. I probably wouldn't have slept that night at all if I hadn't taken them. Good luck! You'll be great!
ETA: try not to worry too much It really will be fine!
clementine / 889 posts
I was induced and it was fine. Healthy baby via vaginal delivery.
I'm not sure how much choice you have in the matter, but a few things I learned during my labor/delivery.
I started pitocin at 7am when I was 1cm and fully effaced. They increased the amount of pitocin every 30 minutes until I was on the max dose because I was just having light contractions every few minutes. I paid for that later! My water hadn't broken and there really wasn't a need to rush things, and once all that pitocin in my body really started working, I had non-stop intense contractions with 15 second to no break in between. If you can, don't have them increase the dose of pitocin every 30 minutes, give it time to get in your system and do its job.
They unhooked the IV when I took a break from the pitocin around 4pm. I thought labor was going to stall out, but opted to get in the tub (best.idea.ever!!) Changing position, walking around, and getting in the tub helped me to relax and the contractions picked back up on their own because of the all the pitocin in my system. Pitocin is not an on or off switch, so if you can, make sure they don't overdo it. If I had to do it over again, I would have requested they up the dose every 60-90 minutes instead of ever 30 minutes.
I drank water, apple juice and gatorade during labor, so I didn't have to be hooked to an IV for fluids. I didn't get fluids via IV until about 2am when I asked for pain meds (a spinal block). They had to run a full bag of fluid before I could get the meds.
They have wireless monitors so you can walk around even while tied to the IV. When you are on pitocin they want to monitor you continuously, so those are great to be able to walk around or change positions without getting stuck in bed.
But like I said, I was induced, had a 23 hour labor with 3 hours of pushing. I had a 10lb 9 oz healthy baby boy. We all healed well and everything was great.
I'm sure you'll do awesome and soon you'll have your LO in your arms!
blogger / watermelon / 14218 posts
ooh! Definitely EAT as much as you can and SLEEP!!! Whatever it takes!! GOOD LUCK!!!
hostess / wonderful watermelon / 39513 posts
Definitely sleep when you can and bring stuff to read!
cherry / 230 posts
I was induced by a catheter, and then they broke my water. I didn't get pit until I had an epi. Don't worry too much, they know what they're doing. Relaxing was key!
apricot / 489 posts
I agree with @tina- you should have a very large meal before you go to the hospital. Once they admininster the medicine, you can't eat. I didn't heed this warning and I was so sad! By the time I was able to eat, I was stuck with hospital food.
Other than that, try to just relax and be present in the experience. You'll be just fine. Good luck!
grapefruit / 4681 posts
I was induced and was both so scared and excited the night before that I literally got no sleep. An hour before I was supposed to be induced the hospital called and said they had to reschedule for the following morning. Again got no sleep that night...
My advice would be to sleep and eat before you go in. Our hospital does not let you eat solids once in labor and delivery, but because I was progressing so slowly I conned my OB/GYN into signing off on some nice hospital grade mac and cheese. HUGE mistake... Came up with the stress of getting an epi.
I'm not sure what all they plan on using for your induction, but I was given an oral cervidil, my water was broken, was put on an epi in order to get pitocin, and was given pitocin. I still wasn't progressing well, but was feeling a lot of pressure and my OB/GYN said he was going to check with a somber tone (he was getting close to moving to a C-section) and BAM! there DS was ready to come out!
I delivered DS vaginally after a 16 hour induction and just over an hour of pushing. The only major complication I had during L&D was my blood pressure was dropping from the pitocin and I was given medication to make it go back up (another reason for the possible c-section), but I have low blood pressure anyway.
My point is I was scared to death of an induction, and in the end it was not a big deal! Try to rest and relax and your little one will be here before you know it! Good luck!
persimmon / 1329 posts
thanks, everyone. very very helpful! wish me luck! not what i expected nor wanted but trying to remain positive and open.
persimmon / 1329 posts
@mrbee: thanks, mr.bee. while in the hospital, i've been cheering JLIN on...hahaha!
admin / wonderful grape / 20724 posts
@Clementine: You almost gave birth on Va-LIN-tine's day!!
grapefruit / 4681 posts
Good luck clementine!
I did not want to be induced either. I wanted an all natural, unmediated birth, and ended up needed every drug in the book to get things moving. The best remark my midwife said to me during my disappointment was "did you not push that baby out all on your own? Then you had the natural birth you wanted". She was right. Things didn't go how I imagined, but I still gave birth to a healthy little boy in the end and that's all that mattered! Rest and try not to think about it. Everything happens for a reason.
clementine / 889 posts
Definitely eat! Forgot about that one... I was able to eat throughout my labor, but lost interest in food around 5 pm. I had been munching on snacks on and off that day, mostly carbs, but I hadn't eaten a big dinner or breakfast before going to the hospital and I was starving by the time I got to eat!
kiwi / 729 posts
I was suddenly induced as well. Good luck! It will be okay! They gave me pitocin and had to ripen my cervix since it wasn't dilated that much. I had what was called a foley catheter (catheter with an uninflated balloon attached at the end, that they inflate once they insert into you). This was the most unpleasant part but once that is over, the process is just a waiting game.
Try to relax and take your mind off of it. Induction can take a long time so it's best not to worry or stress. Keep yourself busy whether it be TV or talking to your partner, reading a book or surfing the internet.
good luck!!
persimmon / 1465 posts
I was induced as well. I wasn't given pitocin as I went into labor without it. I did have my waters broken by the OB and the contractions were about a thousand times worse after that. I delivered vaginally after 30 mins pushing, a healthy 8 1/2 lb baby.
Good luck, you will be fine!
GOLD / wonderful coffee bean / 18478 posts
@Clementine: wow, good luck! you can give us all the details during this post-a-thon.
persimmon / 1329 posts
I had my baby boy yesterday at 11:14 am! Thanks for all your thoughts and prayers. Did anything happen the way I thought it would in terms of L&D, definitely not! All the advice folks gave on HB was great to just be flexible and stay positive. In the end, I have a healthy beautiful baby and that's truly the most important. But, I will wholeheartedly admit, I have no idea what I'm doing now and I'm so exhausted.
GOLD / wonderful coffee bean / 18478 posts
@Clementine: congrats on your healthy baby boy! try to get as much rest in the hospital as you can before going home. and don't worry, no one knows exactly what to do at first.
hostess / wonderful persimmon / 25556 posts
@Clementine: ooo I hope you have a beautiful new baby by now!!!
persimmon / 1329 posts
thanks everyone! i had a healthy baby boy this past Thursday. my L&D was nothing like I planned, but I tried to stay positive and be flexible like everyone said and it went by so fast. we're now home and everyone is well, but to be honest as much as I am overjoyed to have my new baby, I'm so plain exhausted! Now, I understand why EVERYONE TOLD ME TO REST BEFORE LO arrives, but I don't think you really understand until you go through it.
grapefruit / 4681 posts
I'm so happy to hear things are well and your little man arrived safely! Getting rest before little one arrives is definitely hard to understand until the time passes, plus pre-L&D your just too excited to rest Congrats again!
coconut / 8299 posts
Yay! Congrats Clementine!!! The first 3 months are the hardest but it gets better over time. Hang in there!
hostess / wonderful grape / 20803 posts
@Clementine: Aw congratulations on your baby boy! Can't wait to hear more!
grapefruit / 4049 posts
@Clementine: congrats! welcome to parenthood!! hang in there during the newborn period! what helped me a lot was connecting with other exhausted mommies ...we are here if you need anything!
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