wonderful pomelo / 30692 posts
@silver1: @Pumuckl: You guys are the worst! I don't really want to invite them. I already feel like we see them all the time. And my grandparents live too far away to invite.
wonderful pomelo / 30692 posts
@Pumuckl: Sorry the pick up took so long and you were sore, but at least it went smoothly otherwise. I have to bring Xander to daycare today because they are opening late and I'm dreading it. I think carrying the baby plus Xander's daycare bag of stuff is going to be a challenge. And then getting Xander in without being able to pick him up... Not looking forward to it.
pomegranate / 3601 posts
@Adira: oh that sounds stressful. But sometimes it seems they notice when it's not a good time to play around and behave really well. FX it'll be a day like that for Xander.
Could you still invite your grandparents even though they'll probably not be able to make it? I suppose it would make them feel included though. How many great-grandparents do X&L have?
GOLD / wonderful coconut / 33402 posts
@Adira: If you see them all the time, then I think it would be really weird to not invite them. You got suck it up and invite them. Send an invite to your grandparents even if they can't make it. Being an adult stinks sometimes, but I really think it would be the best to invite them.
Wear the baby into day care care. I see parents doing it all the time.
@Pumuckl: 90% of the parents picking up babies at our day care use the strollers every day, even if they don't have a toddler to pick up. R is so slow walking down the hall these days, she has to stop and look in windows, play with the steering wheel, sit in the parking deck (couple rooms are decorated on the outside like car stuff). It takes a good 5 mins to walk out!
pomegranate / 3601 posts
@Smurfette: glad we're not the only ones. Getting him dressed and out is the first major task and then we still have to walk the approximately 300yrds to the car. The first part of that walk is through the yard and you wouldn't believe how much there is to see and just how many sticks there are to pick up Oh well I usually don't rush him because it's really fun to see what he discovers and how happy he is but yesterday it was killing me...
wonderful grape / 20453 posts
@Adira: Yeah dude, it would be weird to not invite Xander's great grandparents. I mean....in our family, they just kind of sit there and watch. They're too elderly to really be doing much else.
@Pumuckl: I'm glad you'll have the stroller today! Lesson learned for sure.
wonderful pomelo / 30692 posts
@Pumuckl: @blackbird: @autumnlove: @Smurfette: What is up with you guys all being so obsessed with family??? Maybe it's because I grew up so far away from my extended family. We never had birthday parties and I rarely saw my grandparents, let alone my great grandparents! I don't see why you guys think I should invite great grandparents to his party. We wanted it to be just our immediate families. I don't consider grandparents immediate family.
@Smurfette: I did invite them to his 1st birthday party, but that's because we did a big party for that. I also invited a bunch of friends and their kids who I will NOT be inviting to future birthdays. I kind of feel great grandparents are on the same page as that.
Also, I feel it would be gift-grabby to invite people to a party that I KNOW can't come...
@Pumuckl: So this morning went surprisingly smoothly, except I didn't get enough sleep! Xander was pretty good, except he was a little whiny when I was nursing Logan. Though he was totally okay with me pumping after! And then we played the rest of the morning and I took him to daycare. It was a little hard to carry Logan and Xander's daycare bag, but Xander was good about walking in by himself and just holding my other hand.
GOLD / wonderful coconut / 33402 posts
@Adira: I don't see you can't consider grandparents immediate family. I mean they are your grandparent and you are inviting Xander's grandparents (your parents). What's the difference?
I also don't think it is worth the family drama by not inviting them. I think not inviting friends and their children to every party is totally different.
Just my 2 cents.
hostess / wonderful watermelon / 39513 posts
@Adira: it just seems like a nice gesture for your MIL who clearly wants her mom to go.
wonderful pomelo / 30692 posts
@Smurfette: I don't consider grandparents to be immediate family. We're inviting OUR (Hubs and my) immediate family. So our parents and siblings. They just happen to be Xander's grandparents and aunts/uncles. But I don't consider them Xander's immediate family, which is just Hubs, me, and Logan. I thought about just having the four of us celebrate his birthday alone (that's what I'm used to for my own birthdays), but our family is so close (distance-wise), I figured why not invite them? But I really debated because that means we're inviting 10 people, which is already too many people, in my opinion!
wonderful grape / 20453 posts
@Adira: I am big on not coming across like an asshole and excluding E's great grandparents ventures into that territory for me! I never had extended family or grandparents at any of my family functions growing up and I still think it's a nice gesture for them to be present. Like i said, they just kind of sit there and like to be around their family.
pear / 1718 posts
@Adira: Sorry, I'm not going to be very helpful either! If it were me, I'd invite them. Guest lists can cause so much drama and I tend to fall into the "more the merrier" camp. I also don't think you should worry about the gift-grabby image.
Glad drop off went well! I'm majorly impressed that you can get two kids out the door in the morning! We have so much trouble with only one!
@Pumuckl: Definitely smart to take the stroller after yesterday. I'm sure you'll get the hang of it soon and then you'll need to be telling us all your tips and tricks for managing two!
This is super random but...
is anyone on this board interested in being part of a Kids Book Exchange? It's one of those things where you mail out a book to one child, then send the pre-made letter with directions to six other people. Then, a few weeks later, your child should receive 36 books in the mail.
I'm a scrooge and I usually hate these things! But a friend sent me the letter and I'd feel too guilty if I ignore it, so I'm trying my best to pass it along to six other willing moms/dads. Let me know if you'd be interested and I'll email you the letter!
We had a fun snow day at home yesterday. DH stayed home but had to be at his computer working most of the day. I took Pete out in the snow but he hated the sled. However, we did a lot of painting, made popcorn on the stove, and went to a playdate at a neighbor's house which was fun. Now, back to the grind a work!
He has a new, ridiculous expression when you ask him if he has a poopy diaper. He says, "Nope! Not yet. Poopy sleeping." Haha, makes me laugh every time. These kids...
GOLD / wonderful coconut / 33402 posts
@QueensBee: I just did one a couple weeks ago. I still haven't received any books.
Glad that you had a fun Mom/Son Snow day! DH is in NYC, get home tonight, so was in his hotel all day since the office was closed.
Haha! P sounds like R, lately she is pooping first thing in the am, I think it wakes her up. I walked in her room this morning and could smell it right away. Yuck!
cantaloupe / 6164 posts
@Adira: I agree with everyone else. I say invite them. I honestly don't see a good reason not to.
wonderful pomelo / 30692 posts
@QueensBee: I tried to do one of those book exchange things before, but it was like pulling teeth amongst my friends to find 6 people willing to do it, and we never got any books back, so I'm afraid you probably wouldn't get any books by including me!
Sounds like you had a fun snow day! We didn't take Xander out in the snow yesterday, but we took him out the other day and he was NOT a fan. Plus he refused to wear his snow gloves, so his mittens got instantly soaked and then he was cold, haha. Fool. That's hysterical about what Pete says about the poop sleeping!!
pomelo / 5621 posts
@silver1: Talking is so much fun, it is interesting to hear what they are thinking.
@Adira: I'm in agreement with everyone else, invite the great grand parents. They would love it and it isn't gift grabby. Glad drop off went well for you.
@QueensBee: Sounds like a fun snow day. Poopy sleeping is way too funny!
@Smurfette: First thing in the morning poops are horrible. Too early to deal with that. I'm always telling Isaac to save his poops for daycare!
@Pumuckl: Hope things are going good for you with the two kiddos on your own.
I had to just do dinner and bedtime myself tonight since DH was working late and I'm exhausted. I don't know how you ladies do every night by yourself.
pear / 1718 posts
@Smurfette: Ah yes, the wake-up poop! Always a treat for mom!
@Adira: Ha ha, yes, my friends are totally going to hate me for sending them the book thing. Oh well! And I'm glad to hear Pete isn't the only toddler who disliked the snow. My IG and FB feed is full of babies smiling in sleds and making snow angels. Not us!
@ALV91711: I do dinner, bath, and bedtime solo at night and it is definitely exhausting. I never have energy to cook a real dinner or do any chores afterwards. I usually just plop on the couch with a glass of wine until bedtime, exhausted and useless!
Yesterday afternoon, Pete saw the waxing moon in the sky. He pointed to it and said, "Moon! Moon is broken!" I thought that was so clever! I seriously love hearing his thoughts now that he can begin to explain them.
GOLD / wonderful coconut / 33402 posts
@QueensBee: I am so jealous of his talking. R still pretty much only says one word at a time and she still doesn't talk a lot. It is more and more each month, but I so ready to have a conversation with her. I still can't understand half of what she says.
pomegranate / 3601 posts
@Smurfette: @QueensBee: dito on the waiting to finally being able to understand what he says. He still mainly talks in one words. Although today when he got me my shoes he was saying "mama's shoes, mama's shoes"
I believe the solo parenting is something you and the kids get used to. One just has a routine down at some point and it works from there.
Yesterday the two littles gave me a run for my money though because J was getting hungry when B went to bed. That resulted in J complaining while I finished B's bedtime story and B wailing while I then nursed J. He still doesn't fall asleep on his own. *sigh* He was out within 2 minutes after I got back to him. Definitely something we'll work on once we move.
wonderful grape / 20453 posts
@Smurfette: I can't understand most of E's jibber jabber, either! It's mostly one or two words, and a very very random sentence once in awhile, that she will never utter again.
pear / 1718 posts
@Smurfette: @Pumuckl: I know that this sounds so cliche but it's true what they say, once they start talking, they don't shut up! Pete narrates everything these days. Most of the time I can understand him but a lot of it is still gibberish.
@Pumuckl: I feel stressed thinking about that situation, which I know will happen to us one day! Pete still takes my full attention at bedtime and when he was a newborn, he marathon nursed all evening long. I can't quite imagine how I would be able to do Pete's bedtime with a newborn in tow. Like you said, I guess you just find a way to make it work!
cantaloupe / 6164 posts
Sadie's talking is like my favorite thing ever. She has a southern accent, but we're not sure where it came from. She also says "strawbees" instead of strawberries, and it's so adorable I make her talk about strawberries all the time.
pomelo / 5621 posts
Tonight the high chair goes away since today we bought a booster seat for the kitchen table. Where is my baby going?!
wonderful pomelo / 30692 posts
@ALV91711: haha, that's awesome! Xander's refused to sit in his high chair for a while now - he just kneels in a regular chair at the table. Though that means there's lot of getting down and running away while we're eating!
pomelo / 5621 posts
@Adira: Running away is not good. Isaac has been sitting on the bench at our table but he is too short and won't kneel. So I figured time for a booster. Our highchair has been sitting unused for a while, it will be nice to get it out of the way.
pear / 1718 posts
@photojane: Strawbees!
@ALV91711: Oh my gosh, I'd love to put our ugly high chair away! Sigh, Pete still loves climbing into his and doesn't seem interested in a booster anytime soon.
We had a really rough night last night. It was like Pete had taken a shot of espresso before bed. He was WIRED. It took him an hour and a half to fall asleep and then he was awake again by 11pm. He was screaming and inconsolable so we brought him into bed with us, where he tossed and turned all night. Around 3am he started sitting up to say, "downstairs!" He was ready to go downstairs to play! Ummm, no. We listened to his whining until 6am (he whined for downstairs, muffins, and an Elmo book, among other things), until we finally got up for the day.
He does have a slight cough but really doesn't seem sick. I really hope tonight is better!
pomelo / 5621 posts
@QueensBee: Oh my that sounds like a rough night. I hope that tonight is much better for you. All of you need some sleep.
pomelo / 5258 posts
@Adira: My LO is talking a lot but that's one phrase I haven't heard yet. I have gotten "Mommy annoying" which is less heart warming.
wonderful pomelo / 30692 posts
@Corduroy: haha!! I often get "No Mama! Timeout!" This is the first time he's ever said this phrase. I think because every night when Hubs takes him up to bed, he encourages him to say it and tonight he finally did!
cantaloupe / 6164 posts
Well, we had the first Spring babe's party this weekend, and it was a hit. Sadie had SO much fun, and hasn't stopped talking about it. Worth every minute and cent!
Her party was Toy Story themed, and we had it at a local ranch (a la Jessie and Woody). We ate, played, took a hayride, and broke open a pinata! The pinata was a last minute "Oh, that's cute!" purchase, but it turned out to be one of the highlights for everyone! I recommend a pinata 1,000 times over.
A few pictures...
wonderful pomelo / 30692 posts
@photojane: Wow! So many awesome details!! It looks great! How many people were there? How many kids? Did Sadie understand how the pinata worked?
pomegranate / 3601 posts
@Adira: full on envy that Xander said I love you. We're no where near complicated sentences like that but B's speech is really getting better and better by the day.
@photojane: Wow, you can tell the fun she had from the pictures. So many awesome details! Since B's birthday is easter this year he'll not really get too much of a party. BUT alot of his family will be there so that's nice.
@QueensBee: hope the other nights went better! B is still in his highchair but then he doesn't have the typical highchair with a tray but a chair that he can sit at the table with (like a Tripp Trapp).
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