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Oh boy we gotta amp this thread up a bit! I'm a total slacker...

@JerricaBenton: I hear you on it feeling like milk took forever to come in, and mine only took 4. Our lil guy ended up losing 8.9%. That is so wonderful that you're recovering well, glad to hear that!

WTG on the weight loss, that's awesome! I am curious where I'm at, we don't have a scale. As for the baby wearing, I think you'll love it! I use a sling and the Cuddly Wrap at home all the time, super convenient - I can get everything done, even dishes/vacuuming with the wrap. I have a Baby Bjorn for outside, its great too! I find that if I wear him too long in it my lower back kills. The Ergo might have better back support tho, I am not sure. Let us know how it goes!

@WALLAROO: 7 weeks!! Wow that flew by! So exciting about your house, good luck with the move, hope all goes smoothly.

@photojane: I'm sorry to hear Sadie is on a sleep strike! Z has decided he doesn't want to sleep at night either. Glad to hear you're loving being a Mom. That is so nice that you can put Sadie down when she's not fully asleep, I'd never get away with that these days.

@ladyfingers: I didn't get to commenting on your photos, Derek is gorgeous!! Hope that's ok to say considering he's a boy very cute babe you made! Good call on going to get some new clothes...I need to get out and do the same, treat myself to some spring items!

How old is LO? 5 weeks tomorrow...that went so fast!

How much do they weigh? I'd guess somewhere around 9 1/2? We don't have a scale.

What new thing have they done lately that you love? All the new sounds he's been making. Different tones as well, DH thinks they're getting deeper. And of course the adorable smiles I'm always trying to coax out of him.

What's your biggest challenge right now? Nighttime sleeping!! Z's he's been cluster/comfort feeding from 11 pm-3 am for the last 4 nights. My eyes are burning! Then after that he refuses to sleep in his bassinet. As soon as I lay him down he's back awake cooing which eventually turns into cries of wanting to be picked up. The only way I caught any zzz's last night was with him on my chest. When 6:00 rolled around I caved and had him sleep beside me for awhile. Those were the only times he slept soundly. Needless to say I am tired and a little bit frustrated.

I'm wondering if it's just a growth spurt? Either way, any tips/tricks would be greatly appreciated!

We might be a tad crazy but we're going to a hockey game on Thursday. Super excited! We're packing him up in the Baby Bjorn and blue baby earmuffs (the cutest thing ever!). Wish us luck

How old is LO? They will be 8 weeks onThursday

How much do they weigh? They haven't been weighed since their 1 month appointment but I'm guessing M is 8 and a half pounds and O isn't too far behind her. He has definitely closed the gap since birth. Their two month appointment is next Monday so I'm curious to see what they weigh. Not looking forward to their shots though.

What new thing have they done lately that you love? O has finally gotten the hang of breast feeding which now means I can tandem feed when DH is home, it is so much more efficient. They are also becoming super aware of everything around them and they are fascinated by it all and make such intrigued faces.

What's your biggest challenge right now? Getting them to nap in the morning is challenging. They both just want to be held after nursing but I need to nurse the other one so I don't really have the luxury to do that for very long. I also can't get much done until they are both napping.

How is everyone feeling PP? I'm feeling great. Just wish I had time to exercise. I am just itching to run but this movies taking up all of my "spare" time. I guess that is my exercise for now, I ran 1 mile a couple weeks ago and aside from needing a more supportive sports bra, it felt great!

@tororojo: congratulations and so happy you can join us on the other side. That clogged duct does not sound fun. It definitely takes longer to get ready to get out of the house these days. I start the process at least two hours before I actually have to leave. Haha.

@lolabee: that is awesome that you and your DH are venturing out to a hockey game with LO. Tell us how it goes.

@JerricaBenton: congrats on the weight loss. That is awesome! I'm still 10 pounds away from pre preg weight but so far away from pre preg body fitness.

@photojane: how is the sleep strike going? Hopefully Sadie has been sleeping more. I got my ergos when they were on baby steals for nearly 50% off.

@ladyfingers: I'm jealous of your new wardrobe. I definitely need an in between wardrobe. My maternity jeans are too big and I don't fit into my pre preg skinny jeans yet. After the move I want to try and get a mini wardrobe for myself so I feel a little more put together.

Hi February Mama's! I hope to participate more on this postpartum thread... DS was born in the latter half of Feb so I bet most of your kiddos are well ahead of mine.

How old is LO? He's 2.5 weeks now - the weeks are going by so much faster as a 2nd time mom. I remember when I had DD, that first month felt endless. I felt like it was groundhog day every day. I'm enjoying this a lot more the 2nd time around.

How much do they weigh? Not sure... probably in the 8 pound range now. His cheeks are chunking up.

What new thing have they done lately that you love? He has all these funy facial expressions - I love staring at him and can't wait to "get to know him" more as he gets older!

What's your biggest challenge right now? I'm just really tired this week. The two week "honeymoon" phase has passed where he'll just sleep and sleep. Right now its a lot of cluster feeding bc he's going through a growth spurt and he has longer awake times. Sometimes I feel like my arm is going to fall off from all the holding!

@Mrs. High Heels: I think maybe our babies are doing the same thing - will yours stay up for hours acting like he's starving and want to nurse constantly?? I'm nervous because after the first hour or so of eating, I feel like there's nothing left to feed him and he can't be satisfied. What about you?

@Mrs. High Heels: Soooo glad I'm not the only one going through this!!! Xander is doing the exact same thing! He's trying so hard to get more milk out but I'm on empty! I'm thinking of trying to give him a pacifier when there's no milk left - maybe he'll be happy sucking on that instead of me.

@Mrs. High Heels: He's actually been sleeping really well today... I'm hoping that means the end of the growth spurt and not that he's going to be up all night tonight...

Ugh rough night/early morning. We washed the rock n play cover last night and it wasn't dry by bedtime so we put the babies to bed in the pack n play. They were fine until after their 4am feeding. I just woke up half an hour ago because they both had spit up a lot! Poor babies. I cleaned them up, put the covers on the rock n play, and they are now sleeping. I hope they can give me a few more hours of sleep.

@WALLAROO: @Adira: Sorry to hear about your terrible nights!! I hope you guys get to squeeze in some naps today. I had a rough night too.. it was the worst night so far since we brought Jaren home. He just turned 3-weeks old today. All day and all night yesterday he would nurse and fall asleep, but every time I tried to put him down he would wake up and fuss. Up til now he's been fine sleeping just about anywhere, so this is something new. Sigh - I hope it passes. And last night he woke up to nurse every hour (I was up at 12:30, 1:30, 2:30, 3:30... etc. Someone shoot me). I would lay down, close my eyes for 5-10 minutes and have to get up again. I'm a zombie today. I have him strapped in the Ergo now and he is fast asleep, but now I'm nervous to even attempt to put him down.

@WALLAROO: Yes, DH is back at work now. He only took one week off. The transition to two kids has actually been much better/easier than I expected. Noelle is a very loving sister and doesn't have any signs of jealousy/resentment at all. She's also at an age where she's getting more and more independent, so she's fine playing by herself and I just make sure she's in my line of sight. DH handles her baths and entire bedtime routine solo now because I'm constantly having to nurse Jaren. I'm missing the time I get to spend with my baby girl, but I'm glad she's adjusting well.

How exciting about the move!! I agree probably better to get the move over with sooner than later! We moved when Noelle was about 11-months old and really had to time things around her nap schedule, which was a bit of a hassle.

And so impressed by your twin mom skills! Handling one newborn is hard enough as it is, I don't know how you're doing it with two at once - supermom!

I loved reading everyone's updated. Seems like all the babes and moms are doing great except for all of the sleepless nights. We had one REALLY awful night, which I think can be attributed to a mental leap. It corresponded with her learning to smile at us, so even though it was an awful night, it was SO worth it. Love her little smiles.

Have any of you guys tried using white noise? I have an app on my phone that I use for my newborns for work, and it's magic. She will usually fall right to sleep when she's tired, but if she ever gets overtired and starts fighting sleep, I just turn on the white noise & she is OUT. I highly recommend it!

Also, I have some good news to share!

We went to our one month follow-up with the plastic surgeon, and he gave us some super helpful info about Sadie's feeding issues. Thankfully her tongue tie is completely gone, and her incision site is healed up. Though we've already discussed her anatomical differences with the lac consultant, and her ped, the surgeon officially "diagnosed" her with a retracted mandible. Basically her bottom jaw is farther back than it should be (which is actually super cute... her little bottom lip is always tucked under). We figured it out the hard way, but he informed us that it would be nearly impossible to breastfeed a baby with her current anatomy (she can't latch). And, since she's not even latching great with the bottle, he is a proponent of formula feeding. He wants us to concentrate on getting as much formula in her as possible, so that she'll continue to gain weight. Thankfully, as she grows, her jaw should correct itself. He thinks by three months it should be most of the way corrected, so we have another follow-up then. Though I'm not happy she has this issue, it makes me feel so relieved that there was absolutely nothing I could've done to make BFing work - I can stop feeling guilty! It turns out that bottle feeding has been wonderful for us... she eats and sleeps so well. I'm just so encouraged that after a really hard personal struggle, I can let all of that mommy guilt and jealousy go.

@Mrs. High Heels: February 26th - Alexander Michael!

@shopaholic: Have you tried entertaining her in other ways? We put Xander on his activity mat and he seems content there for a while sometimes. We've also started doing tummy time, though he's not really a fan, haha. Do you have a carrier? Maybe you could put her in a carrier and go about doing your chores and she'll be happy?

@Adira: Not doing the tummy time on a mat yet because her umbilical cord stump is still there and kind of flaking off blood even. And she really doesn't like lying on her back. She always cries and flails after a minute or less!

@Mrs. High Heels: Thanks friend!

@Adira: @Mrs. High Heels: I've been trying to get K used to the carriers. We've only successfully gotten her into the K'tan once while she was totally conked out. I thought it was no problem and took her out after a few minutes. But since then, she flexes her whole body and her face gets so upset every time I attempt to put her in. If it's still not working in a week or two, that thing is getting returned. I haven't tried the Moby we got yet - so much fabric!

I DID get her in the Ergo yesterday and right now!!! I'm practicing getting her used to it! Both times I've met resistance, protest with those strong arms of hers, and cries for a few minutes. But bouncing around and walking seem to put her to sleep both times. I just have to get her in a calm and good mood to even begin to put her in.

We have the Snugabunny Swing and it's good for daytime sleeping. She doesn't seem to happy to stay in it when she is just awake though. This girl just always wants to be carried and my Carpal Tunnel Syndrome is flaring up like crazy! So I think I will be relying on the Ergo a lot!

@Mrs. High Heels: Thanks! Feb 12 - Sadie Rose

@shopaholic: We're happy to have you here, you're an honorary Feb mama! As far as sleeping is concerned, I really swear by noise. It works for all of my newborns during their sessions, and it works with Sadie as well. When baby is inside she is constantly hearing loud noises - your heartbeat, blood pumping, etc. So, it only makes sense that when baby is on the outside, she'll enjoy the same noise. For some reason people think that complete silence and serenity are imperative for a sleeping baby, but it's actually the opposite (your baby can get used to sleeping in silence, though, which creates the "tip-toe" around the house situation!). Simple shushing can make a big difference. Every time I'm going to move Sadie or one of my babies while they're sleeping I make a loud "shhh" sound. It generally helps soothe them, and they won't wake (or at least won't wake completely) while we're moving. I continue to shush while they're in their new position/location until I'm certain they're comfy. If a baby starts to wake or fuss, I continue to shush and then either pat the babies bum firmly or use both hands on either side to bounce the baby a little depending on how she's laying. The noise + movement always works for me. A white noise machine or app are helpful too... Sadie likes the white noise the best, but some babies prefer a heartbeat sound, and others rain or waves. I hope that helps!

@Baby Boy Mom: so glad you popped in! how do you keep your toddler entertained while tending to your infant? mine are 2 years 2 months apart, but noelle is pretty independent now. she's also in preschool 5 days a week, and when she gets home my DH is back from work too. my MIL is also around to help if needed.

hope you figure out the cause of his tummy problems soon!

How do you ladies find time to get on the bee? I need to learn to multitask better! It's so comforting to read that I'm not alone in being sleep deprived and having baby on the brain...what did new moms do before the internet?

@shopaholic: DH and I have both worn LO in the Moby and it's working well so far! We watched a video and practiced before she was here and studied the instruction booklet b/c we're dorks. I still need a mirror and plenty of adjusting to get it on right, but once she's in it she'll sleep for a really long time! I have heard great things about the K'tan as well, and everyone seems to love the Ergo.

@photojane: I think baby photographers are magic--decided that yesterday when we got LO's pics done. So many tricks to soothe and keep them drowsy! We have white noise and have barely used it; maybe I'll try it again when we put her down tonight.

Does anyone else get really paranoid that LO will spit up while sleeping on his/her back and choke? That's like my biggest fear right now...she usually doesn't burp or spit up much, but the past few nights there has been one feeding where she'll toss most of it up and it freaks me out! I keep sending DH to check on her.

Also, my LO: Luisa Noelle, born 3/6

I can't believe I've been MIA from this board for so long! I read HB all the time, usually on iPad/phone while I'm nursing, but I find it so much easier to respond (especially if I want to write more than a sentence or two) on my computer, which I don't get to as often as I'd like.

My LO was born 2/8. I don't want to put her full name on here, because it's somewhat unique, but we're using the nickname Ellie. (Her actual first name is Hebrew and begins with Y. Still not sure whether she'll be Ellie or her real name as she grows up; we use both.)

As I've been reading this thread, I've been nodding my head a lot, agreeing with and recognizing what everyone else has been through! She sleeps mainly in her bouncy seat, even at night. Between being able to have it vibrate and bounce, which seem to help her fall/stay asleep, and the fact that it isn't flat horizontal, since she's pretty congested, it works better, and our pediatrician okayed it for overnight, so we're going with it!

Breastfeeding is going well, finally. I have raynaud's, so especially for the first few weeks, the feeding itself wasn't completely awful (although the latching was), but in between feeds (as in, the rest of the time), I was in a lot of pain. It's not all better now, but I'm either used to it or it's somewhat better, and I would even say I enjoy nursing her, at least to some extent--and I can hardly believe I'm typing that!

I'm in awe watching her every day. She seems to spend a little more time awake almost every day than the one before, and I'm just trying to keep up, finding things to do, songs to sing, ways to entertain (but not overstimulate?) her. I try to get out of the house almost every day, even for just a little while, more for my own sanity than anything else! So we've been to Target, to the hospital's Mommy & Me group, the mall for a walk, out to lunch with friends, over to work to visit... She mainly stays in her carseat, and often with a light blanket over it in more crowded places, but I'm much happier when I don't just sit home all day.

That's enough of a novel from me...hopefully I'll get in here and check in (and not just read your checkins!) more often!

An updated list :)... everyone has such great taste in names!!

Photojane: February 6 - Sadie Rose
Jessibee: February 8 - "Ellie"
Baby Boy Mom: February 18 - "Baby Brother"
Mrs. High Heels: February 22 - Jaren David
Adira: February 26 - Alexander Michael
Shopaholic: March 6 - Kaitlyn Irene
Torojojo: March 6 - Luisa Noelle

Ladyfingers
Phillybaby2013
Lolabee
Thatwife
Jerricabenton
Wallaroo

@tororojo: i have a little table setup next to my glider/nursing station with water, food, and my laptop. i usually type one-handed while i nurse... and since i'm nursing every other hour right now i have plenty of time to be online!

so far, DS hasn't spit up that badly while sleeping... if he has gas or needs to burp he always wakes himself up, so every time stuff comes out of him, he's already awake. i agree that elevating him might help. do you have a RnP?

@JessiBee: we use the nickname Ellie too (short for Noelle)! now i'm imagining all the possible names that could match with Ellie that starts with a "Y". i'm not familiar with raynaud's... why does it cause you pain in-between feedings but not during? getting out has helping me stay sane too. it actually helps me feel less tired, and some days i don't even think about how tired i am when i actually get myself out of the house, run some errands, or even go for a walk in the sun.

@Baby Boy Mom: your DS sounds so independent, esp for being under 2! no way was my DD capable of all that at your DS' age. my DD still likes to make sure i'm right there beside her when she's doing her thing and she's already 2 years 2 months old. sounds like everything you're doing is really working for you!

@tororojo: Xander will spit up while sleeping on his back, but he always has his head turned to one side, so I'm not worried about choking.

@ladyfingers: I think we're finally starting to get Xander into a routine, though it's only been three days, so I don't want to jinx myself! But the last three days, we've been trying to do E.A.S.Y. and it seems to be working, although evenings are still funky and he likes to cluster feed and stay awake for a few hours, but last night, he slept for FOUR HOURS and I got some much needed sleep! It was AWESOME! I even decided to pump in the middle of the night because he only drank from one side and I was able to get two ounces, so I'm feeling pretty pumped today!