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Totally totally feel you chibee! I just found out 2 days ago (at 10dpo) and I'm sort of kicking myself for testing so early. More days to know/stress. I swear the last 2 days have been the longest of my life!
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@Torchwood: I love it, and I think it is a great idea!
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@LovelyPlum: I have really been thinking about you for a few days, and not sure how I wanted to respond, so I'm just going to say that I think you are so brave for admitting this (and I'm crying again, stupid hormones) and I truly hope that you can work toward finding some peace. Counseling is hard work (I'm a counselor) but one of the hardest things is to decide that you are ready to work on getting to a better place. This is probably one of the best things that you could do for your little Bean to come, so all my love and hugs and thoughts are with you. You can do it.
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@HazelEyes: thank you so much, friend. That means a lot. I'm realizing how much counseling has helped in the past, and how much I need it now. This stuff is hard, and it is way too much for me to do on my own. Thank you for the love and support. We can totally do this
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@chibee: I'm going through this feeling right now. I'm only 4 weeks along and I'm terrified! How did you end up finding your sanity and not worrying as much? Or, did you at all?
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@CatchAFallingStar: well, i actually did end up miscarrying that particular pregnancy. I was diagnosed with a blighted ovum at my 8 week ultrasound and had a D&C that same week. However, I got pregnant only 2 months later and I am 25 weeks along! The fear really never goes away - i had no real reason to have this miscarriage fear the first time i got pregnant but i think it's just normal. it's just something so precious and you are afraid it will be taken away from you - with this pregnancy i had the fear also, but you just have to not let it control you somehow. Easier said that done probably, but it's just easier to accept that if an early miscarriage is going to happen, there's really nothing you can do about it, you just have to hope and pray for the best! maybe some call that morbid, but honestly it was a little freeing to think about it that way. congrats and try to just enjoy the feeling instead of worrying!
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