I don't know! But I am 35 already and we want another.
I don't know! But I am 35 already and we want another.
honeydew / 7811 posts
I'm 32 now. I think probably around 38? Depending on my health, energy level, and things like finances/space of course.
DH however is 9 years older than me. He is done like tomorrow!
wonderful kiwi / 23653 posts
I'm 29 and for now, I think 35. Assuming all goes well, we'll have our 1st when I'm 30, and our 2nd by 32/33, and max if we have a 3rd by 35! DH is 7 years older than me so he'd be in his mid-40's if I have kids beyond 35
hostess / wonderful watermelon / 39513 posts
40 but I hope we have another LO sooner than that.
GOLD / watermelon / 14076 posts
In my current situation probably 33 or 34 (but I'm 28 now). If I hadn't met DH until later in life I'd have no problem with wanting to be pregnant after 35. I think I'd want to be done by 40-42 in that situation, though.
papaya / 10570 posts
I've been wondering this, too. I'm 33 in a month. We will probably TTC LO#2 when DD is 2, so providing we don't have any problems I will be 35 when LO#2 arrives. But.... I still kinda want that third child. If we leave another 3 year age gap, that puts me at 38.....
I'm going to say 38!
wonderful pomelo / 30692 posts
In our current situation, probably 35. But if we didn't already have Xander, probably 40.
cherry / 132 posts
I think 37 I'll be 31 in July and if I get KU this year I'd ideally want 2 more, so with my ideal spacing that should bring us somewhere around that. I might actually stretch to 40, the majority of the women in my family had kids in their late 30s/early 40s
pomelo / 5298 posts
40 has always been my cutoff. LO was born when I was 37, and this one will be born when I'm 40. And we will be done.
blogger / pomegranate / 3201 posts
My mom had my brother when she was 40, so I think that would be my cut off. I'm 31 now and have a two year old, but we want at least one more - I'd be happy with three more
clementine / 899 posts
Ideally, I would like to be done before 30. I think the latest cut off would be 35.
GOLD / squash / 13464 posts
40. Though I forsee myself actually being done around 30/31 based on our current situation and plans.
apricot / 355 posts
I'll be 35ish when we start trying for #2, and that will likely be our last one.
coffee bean / 25 posts
I'm 39 now (will be 40 in October) and I'm hoping to start TTC for #1 soon. My guess is we'll be one and done because of my age, but you never know!
pomegranate / 3565 posts
38 - that would put the age gap of my last two at around 3 years. That would be the biggest gap I would want.
nectarine / 2771 posts
Right now, probably 37-38. If I had to, I'd probably push to 40, but no later than that.
GOLD / squash / 13576 posts
40. I had LO when I was 33, I'm pregnant again at 35. We want 3.
GOLD / cantaloupe / 6581 posts
30. I was lucky enough to have LO when I was 26, and if we have another, it will definitely be before I'm 30.
GOLD / wonderful olive / 19030 posts
I'm a few weeks shy of 29, I think the oldest would be 32. I would prefer to be done by 30, but leaving the option open for a 3rd.
papaya / 10343 posts
I think that it would be a moving target based on my health at any given moment. Sitting here at 29 and pregnant with my first, I'd say I'd like to be done by 35. But if I hit 35 and felt I was in good enough health to want to do it again, why not?
blogger / wonderful cherry / 21616 posts
because of my current situation, 35 would be the latest. I was 22 when I had my son and ideally would have liked to be done by 30 as a result but with school that may or may not happen depending on whether we decide to have another one and when.
coconut / 8234 posts
Right now I say 38, but that's only 2 years from now. In my head I think getting pregnant next year when LO is 3 would be good, but I still don't know if I'm ready! I'd only go up to 40. After 40 if I'm not pregnant again we're going to be one and done.
cantaloupe / 6086 posts
I would have said a few years back that I absolutely want to be done by 35. but now I'm not sure if that will happen and I'm willing to be flexible (33 this year and struggling to get pregnant again).
eggplant / 11408 posts
Probably 38-40. My mom had 5 kids in her 30s, so I grew up thinking that was normal
I'm 29 now and just a few months off of where she was.
pomegranate / 3759 posts
I told DH 35 is my cutoff so if we try for a third we have 3.5 more years.
pomegranate / 3845 posts
I'd like to be done by 30 at the latest. We are likely done so mission accomplished lol.
bananas / 9899 posts
I'd like to be done by 35 for sure. I'm 27 now and we hope to have a second before we're 30.
pomelo / 5220 posts
I think 35-36. Depends on timing. I will be 31 when LO #1 is born, hopefully 33 with #2, maybe we will keep going, maybe we will stop?
pomegranate / 3809 posts
I'll be 35 this year and still working on the first one and I want 2... so I guess there isn't really a cut off, maybe 45 at the absolute latest.
cantaloupe / 6059 posts
30. I'm 23 and pregnant with #2 now. We may try for a third or fourth in a couple years which would put me at 26 and 28 for those babies should we decide to have a few more and all were to go according to plan.
grapefruit / 4028 posts
Any age. I just want a baby.
Realistically, I think DH will decide the cut off point, I don't think he wants a newborn past 37/38. So for me that means 35ish.
nectarine / 2765 posts
Ehhh....37 or so at the very latest? I'd prefer to be done sooner but that's only a few years away. We do have frozen embryos so technically they'll always be 31. DH is 8 years older so that would have to factor in.
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