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Hello ladies! Had my first OB appt today, and we saw the fetus and the little heartbeat So exciting!

@shellio: Aw, so fun! Congrats!

My appointment today was pretty underwhelming -- weight/height, urine sample, family history, a bit of a check-up for me and the Doppler, and that was that. My doctor is supposed to do some research into our genetic issue and call me in a few weeks, plus he mentioned that our ultrasound (not sure which one, or if it was both) showed a bleed, so I will probably get a follow up scan. I'm kinda bummed out that it was so basic but I guess there isn't much to talk about during the first appointment? They're sticking with the due date from my LMP, too, even though both of my ultrasounds measured a bit further along.

I wasn't booked in for a follow-up so I'm hoping he'll do that when he calls?

@MrsDragon: Sorry to hear your first appointment was disappointing. Mine wasn't much either and I was sent to the hospital for our ultrasound. That was the most exciting part! I hope you get some reassuring answers soon.

@Cara M. 17: that's my due date too!!

@Running Elley: Yay due date twins!

@lilteacherbee: Thank you!

@MrsCB: Look at that little picture from your appointment last week!!! Congratulations Hope everything is ok up there in Boston - is everyone you know and love ok?

@DigAPony: A flip flop!! How exciting I'm glad to hear your like your practice too.

@MrsTiz: Glad to hear your appointment last week went well! I bet it was so cool to see all of the movement! Be sure to bring your husband next time you have an ultrasound - it's pretty fun to share those moments with him

@sweetooth: I didn't know we were having one!

I have another appointment scheduled on the 24th for another U/S so DH can come to that one!

@sweetooth: I agree! It can't come quick enough!

@ms.janedoe: Awe, deep breaths! It will be such an exciting time! :))

@ms.janedoe: lots of luck! keep us posted!

Heartbeat!!! Whew! It seemed fast (but what do I know)--172 beats per minute, but she found it right away!!! So crazy!

I DID end up setting up the first trimester screening (appointment next Friday), not so much because we're "worried" or anything about any potential risks, but because I want another ultrasound!

@ms.janedoe: Yay, that's awesome!!!

My appointment is supposed to be next Thursday. I'm 9w 2d today and my last baby's heart stopped around 8w 6d, so I'm terrified even though we've had 2 good ultrasounds already. I'm trying so, so hard to have faith...but I'm scared because I don't want to go through that heartbreak again.

With all that said, I changed my appointment from the 25th to tomorrow at 2:15. I feel kinda crazy, but I've decided that I need to do whatever it takes to ease my mind during this pregnancy.

So... I'm a bit annoyed and irritated now. Turns out, they had my appointment all messed up and they wanted me to come back tomorrow. Apparently, the appointment was just to talk about family history with a nurse and only after that could I see a doctor. Well, I asked if I could see the doctor anyway today because I was really nervous. I also asked about an ultrasound and the lady said "your next one won't be until 18-20 weeks." What?! They don't do NT scans.

Finally, they got that all straightened out and I was able to see the doctor. She confirmed no ultrasounds for 2 months (visit at 13 weeks to hear heartbeat). I practically was in tears and explained my situation- that I'm basically at the same point now that I was in my last pregnancy when the heart stopped. She wheeled in the tiny ultrasound machine and we saw baby's heart beating and even saw he/she moving. No pictures though and she couldn't measure the baby or its heartbeat

Basically, they said I get an ultrasound at 8 weeks (I was 6.5. Tried to explain that I have long cycles but they wouldn't listen) and the anatomy scan. If I didn't already have the ultrasound at the ER 2 weeks ago, that would have made one ultrasound at 6.5 weeks and not another until 3 months later. For someone who is terrified of another missed m/c, it seems nuts.

I'm happy I got to see the baby, if only for a minute, and that he/she seems to be doing well. I'm considering switching OB offices to the one I used to see. I switched last summer only because of issues with previous insurance. I really loved my old OB. I know that office does the NT scan because I have several friends who go there. I know it's common to only have a couple ultrasounds in a pregnancy, but having had a m/c with absolutely no signs...it's just scary. I need these ultrasounds to stay sane.

@lilteacherbee: glad you got to see the little heartbeat.
I would seriously consider switching doctors, if you aren't comfortable now....it could be worse during labor. You really need a doctor you can click with.

If you want an NT scan, I would push for it, whether you switch doctors or not.

@lilteacherbee: my midwife's way of reassuring me was an early u/s at 8 weeks instead of 12. I couldn't get anything else by begging but this Friday is my appointment! I understand the fear - I have it every day but every day has gotten easier and that's without seeing the baby yet. God is definitely watching over you and baby. have faith in Him.

@Ash: Yes, it's very frustrating! Mrstiz actually only lives 2 hours away so its tempting to drive to see someone who actually cares haha! I think I will switch because I loved my previous doctor and I've heard really good things about the practice during pregnancy. I'm so happy that you finally have your ultrasound!!! Can't wait to hear how it goes!

My goodness, I am behind on posts!

@sweetooth: Welcome back! I hope you had a wonderful vacation!

@ms.janedoe: YAY for hearing the heartbeat. Isn't it the most amazong moment of your life?

@lilteacherbee: Glad you got to see the heartbeat. I agree with what others have said, it sounds like maybe you should consider switching doctors to someone who will be more supportive of your valid concerns.

@mrs. j: Sounds like a great appointment! I am so jealous you got to record the heartbeat!

My midwife appointment yesterday was pretty uneventful. We went over my bloodwork & urine results (all fine), talked about a few questions I had, and scheduled my 12 week ultrasound and appointment. Next u/s is May 16th!