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  1. littlejoy

    pomegranate / 3375 posts

    @Mrs. Blue: Welcome!! You are hilarious ... and yes, you are the woman with ALL THE CHILDREN! Four?! Go, mama!!! Sorry you have to wait so long for your first u/s ... are they just booked until then? Hopefully, it'll fly by (I mean, you do have your hands full, I'm sure).

  2. pmerr

    apricot / 491 posts

    @Mrs. Blue: Eeek! Congrats! So exciting!

  3. MrsBrewer

    coconut / 8854 posts

    @Mrs. Blue: Congrats and welcome! you're not a crazy lady! I plan on having 4 LO's hopefully!!

  4. Revel

    pear / 1563 posts

    @Mrs. Blue: how exciting! I remember following your twin pregnancy on here.

    So now that I've got diclegis making me feel like less than total sh*t, cramps are back today and of course I'm obsessing. Not sure why cramps are so disconcerting this time around. At least I have my scan tomorrow afternoon. It may also he that because I'm feeling a bit better I have the brain space to worry....

  5. Mrs. Microscope

    pear / 1788 posts

    @Mrs. Blue: fingers crossed for a healthy SINGLE baby! Welcome!

    Exhaustion has been pretty bad, but as soon as it's 7pm, I get a second wind and I can't sleep until 11. If I could sleep at 8pm I feel like it would solve all my problems!

  6. peachykeen

    pear / 1648 posts

    @Mrs. Blue: welcome and congrats!

    Good luck to all the mamas with appointments tomorrow! Can't wait to hear the updates!

  7. littlejoy

    pomegranate / 3375 posts

    I *might* be getting over some of my food aversions - well, I still can't eat food cooked at home, which is SO WEIRD. BUT, I just had a huge burrito, ate the whole thing, and I'm hungry again.

    Anyone else experiencing symptoms earlier? Or seeing them end sooner this time around?

  8. peachykeen

    pear / 1648 posts

    @littlejoy: Funny you mention that... I definitely still have aversions but starting yesterday I'm having more cravings and I think my appetite might finally be increasing a little. The other funny thing is I'm actually craving pickles this pregnancy - so stereotypical!

  9. KNS

    cherry / 136 posts

    @Littlejoy I found that my symptoms came on much sooner and stronger than last time. Now that the diclegis seems to be working well I don't really know if they are ending sooner.

    We are definitely going to find out the gender, we did last time and I am too impatient to be team green! I keep asking our daughter if she wants a girl or boy baby and she keeps saying she wants 2 girls. I was so relieved when we only had one baby on the first scan!

    I have my NT scan and second prenatal apt on the 25th and think we will probably do the nipt test at that time.

  10. Revel

    pear / 1563 posts

    @littlejoy: @KNS: in my sickness haze this weekend I was googling morning sickness, of course, and somewhere I read a conclusion that symptoms could be stronger but shorter-lived in second pregnancies. Of course there's a study to prove everything so...

    Like kns I have diclegis working so can't say for sure but I don't feel better yet.

  11. Mrs. Pickle

    blogger / wonderful cherry / 21628 posts

    Let's see... about me. I'm 28, live in TX, and have been married to DH for almost 7 years. I work part time in real estate. I love to read, watch movies, and travel. Like many of you I'm really into Star Wars and Harry Potter. I also love history and read and watch a lot of biographies, documentaries, and historical fiction.

    I'm pretty much counting down the hours until my appointment Friday!

  12. Mrs. Pickle

    blogger / wonderful cherry / 21628 posts

    @Mrs. Blue: welcome!

  13. Cole

    grapefruit / 4649 posts

    @Mrs. Blue: congratulations! I'm so happy for you guys!

    @Revel: I'm glad the diclegis is helping. I hope the cramps are nothing and that you get to see a perfect baby with heartbeat tomorrow!

    I'm enjoying reading all the intros everyone is posting! It's fun to get to know everyone better.

    We live just outside Detroit, Michigan in the sweetest little community ever. I'm 34 and this baby will arriving just in time to save me from the dreaded AMA (of course that also means we'll be paying OOP for the nipt.) My husband and I have been together since high school in 2000 and have been married for 8.5 years. Our daughter is 2 so they will be just shy of 3 years apart. I'm "glad" to see I'm not the intended one with a gender preference, I didn't have one with my first but I'd really love a sister for my daughter-plus practically I'd really love to reuse her clothes and if it's another girl they will share a room at least for a little while.

    Good luck to everyone with appointments tomorrow!

  14. nolababy

    pea / 5 posts

    Hi ladies,
    Checking back in after a little time away.
    We had our first appt. but they are very strict about no ultrasounds until 8 weeks, so I scheduled my ultrasound for January 10, when I will be 8 weeks and 5 days, which seems so late...

    I work in education here in New Orleans; we moved here when my husband got into residency from Brooklyn, NY. We have been married 9 years, and our little girl is 2.5.

    So nice to hear everyone's stories..

  15. peachykeen

    pear / 1648 posts

    Adding in @Mrs. Blue: and the appointment updates...

    Aug 3 - PetitDuck (#2)
    Aug 5 - KNS (#2)
    Aug 7 - MamaFern (#2), LittleJoy (#2)
    Aug 9 - MrsD2442 (#1)
    Aug 10 - Mrs. Blush (#1), PeachyKeen #2)
    Aug 11 - Cole (#2)
    Aug 14 - Spinny (#2)
    Aug 16 - MommySLP (#3), SapphireSun (#2), Mrs. Pickle (#2)
    Aug 17 - Nolababy (#2), Mrs.Pinecone316 (#2), Mrs. Blue (#4)
    Aug 18 - Pmerr (#2)
    Aug 19 - Rachebon (#2), MrsBrewer (#2)
    Aug 21 - AZjax (#2), Torchwood (#2)
    Aug 23 - Mrs. Microscope (#2), ColeyCam (#1)
    Aug 25 - Revel (#2), PhillyDogLover (#1)
    Aug 29 - CodderGirl (#2)

    Appts:
    Jan 5 - Rachebon, ColeyCam, AZjax, Revel, PetitDuck
    Jan 6 - Mrs. Pickle
    Jan 10 – Pmerr, Nolababy
    Jan 13 - Mrs. Microscope
    Jan 17 – PeachyKeen, LittleJoy
    Jan 20 – MommySLP
    Jan 25 – Mrs. Blue, KNS

  16. MrsBrewer

    coconut / 8854 posts

    I'm 28, and have been married for 5years. Met DH in college she. We were 19, babies! Haha we have a 19 month old little girl! I live in WI, love to sew, and my goal is to learn how to knit and crotchet! I'm in the minority, not really a fan of Star Wars or Harry Potter, sorry guys!

  17. Torchwood

    pomelo / 5607 posts

    Omg y'all. The toddler is having such a hard night. I've already had a complete meltdown and I just feel like getting pregnant again was the worst idea. How the hell am I going to handle nights like this with two? I'm so overwhelmed. Tell me I'm not going to regret having another.

  18. pregnantbee

    grapefruit / 4717 posts

    @Mrs. Blue: Quietly wishing you a huge congrats from a former almost Aug 2016 mama.

  19. Mrs. Blush

    cherry / 163 posts

    @Mrs. Blue: OMG this is too funny. I remember when I was in my obsessive 'I can't wait to have a baby' phase I read through all of your pre-ttc posts and they really helped me. Very glad that you are here with us! I think four kids sounds amazing - I've seen so many families I admire with four kids.

  20. Mrs. Blue

    blogger / pomelo / 5361 posts

    Thanks everyone for the warm welcome!

    @pregnantbee: Thank you! Any tips for surviving the summer while largely pregnant? I've never had to do that before.

    @Mrs. Blush: Haha! Thanks. I remember obsessively writing those when I was dying to have that first baby! Seems like forever ago now.

    @Torchwood: You're not going to regret having another one. There will be nights that are awful and you may wonder how you will survive, but you will not regret it! Promise. I can't remember exactly how old you LO is. The twins were 22 months when G was born and it was rough; I'm not gonna lie about that. But we made it and somewhere between 2 1/2-3, the big boys got so much more independent and it just got noticeably easier. Of course, there are always rough days where bedtime can't come soon enough, but you'll make it!

  21. pmerr

    apricot / 491 posts

    @nolababy: I am having a US the same day at 8 weeks (almost 9). That seems so early to me! haha. Last time, I had mine scheduled for about 10 weeks, but I went in just under a week before the scheduled date since I was off for bereavement. And I was only going in that early because I wasn't going to be doing any of the testing.

  22. pmerr

    apricot / 491 posts

    @Mrs. Blue: Stay where it's cool and drink lots of water! I lived by the AC last time! My son is a September baby, so now I'm a little worried being an extra month along in the summer!

  23. peachykeen

    pear / 1648 posts

    @Mrs. Blue: The good thing about summer pregnancy is you can just throw on a knit dress and go, and flip flops are acceptable footwear when your feet are swollen

    I'm in Georgia, so I basically stayed in the AC a lot. Floating in a cool pool felt amazing once my ankles got so swollen (pre-eclampsia, so they were bad). My worst moment was an outdoor employee appreciation dinner for DH in mid-July - I was so hot and dizzy I know I wasn't very good for conversation, but otherwise it wasn't too bad.

  24. pmerr

    apricot / 491 posts

    @peachykeen: Yes! I lived in flip flops and my feet where HUGE! I also didn't have to work over the worst part, so I just wore shorts or capris and a tank everyday. This time around I have to work! I'll be in dresses all day!

  25. coddergirl

    coffee bean / 42 posts

    @Mrs Blue - Welcome! My secret wish is 4 but then I look at my 1 year old's utter destruction of our house (and sleep!) and wonder if I'm high on something

    @Revel Here's hoping MS is shorter lived second time round. My diet this week has been reduced to scrambled eggs, toast, and pizza!! At least... protein?!

    I'm 29, live on Cape Cod with DH + DS. We just moved back to the US after living in Oxford, England for 7 years so having a bit of reverse culture shock but mostly loving it. I am a Program Manager for an educational software company in the UK, working from home.

  26. Mrs. Blue

    blogger / pomelo / 5361 posts

    @pmerr: @peachykeen: Ugh, I guess those are good perks. I was just thinking yesterday that I bet we spend a lot of time sitting in the little kiddie pool this summer. I have to dress up for work, but the rest of the time I can live in comfy stuff while I bake in the good ol' Texas sun. Our others were born in Jan. and March, so I've always been lucky to be bundled up when I was on the giant, swollen side.

  27. Mrs. Blue

    blogger / pomelo / 5361 posts

    @coddergirl: The trick is that they grow up and biology somehow dulls the memory of what one-year olds are like. One and two are NOT my jam, so trying to decide if we wanted another one while my almost 2-year old wrecking ball is wreaking havoc everywhere was not an easy decision!

  28. coddergirl

    coffee bean / 42 posts

    @Mrs Blue - haha, even though I love him, I'm SO glad to hear that 1 year olds improve with time

  29. pmerr

    apricot / 491 posts

    @Mrs. Blue: I have wanted a winter/spring baby, but then worried about my feet! lol

  30. Mrs. Blue

    blogger / pomelo / 5361 posts

    @coddergirl: I hang on to something I read once about how each mom has certain stages of parenting that are their jam and they just love it and thrive on parenting kids that age. I love me a baby and now that our bigs are almost 4, Ican see gimpses of another stage ahead that I think I'm really going to like, but toddlers....shudder. I mean I love MY toddlers but it's a stage that I just try to survive. Meanwhile, a friend was just going on about how she LOVES the toddler stage. Crazy.

  31. Revel

    pear / 1563 posts

    @coddergirl: thanks, you too! I'm in the midst of a bad stretch, since about midday yesterday, hoping I get another good day soon. I'm eating primarily bagels with cream cheese, wonton soup and the occasional egg. Feel like utter crap.

  32. Mrs. Pickle

    blogger / wonderful cherry / 21628 posts

    @Torchwood: I won't lie, I'm scared. I don't know how I can spread my attention between two little ones and still have time for myself.

  33. Torchwood

    pomelo / 5607 posts

    @Mrs. Blue: She's 18mo, so she'll hopefully be about 26mo when this one arrives. Their due dates are actually about 2 weeks apart, but since she was early they *should* be farther apart. And thank you. I think at this point it's hard because I'm not attached to this pregnancy as an actual baby at all, so all I can see right now is that it will be hard. I can't imagine how you survived. I was so afraid of twins with my betas being higher than expected. I would have cried.

    @Mrs. Pickle: Yes! Most of my alone time right now is when she's asleep, but I don't expect their naps to align for a while, and I don't think I'll have the energy to stay up as late as I do these days when I'm dealing with two. So when do I do me? I'm a major introvert, so I need that time to recover even from my own kid.

  34. Mrs. Blue

    blogger / pomelo / 5361 posts

    @Mrs. Pickle: @Torchwood: Early bedtimes, my friends, early bedtimes! Best thing in the world.

    And Torchwood, I never feel super "attached" until the baby is here, either--I mean I want the baby to be okay, etc., but it just doesn't seem real-ish until I hear them cry--so I get that. I spend way too much time in all my pregnancies worrying about what it's going to be like, all the negatives, if everything will be okay both with pregnancy and after, etc., but when that baby arrives, you'll love it with the same overwhelming love you have for you first LO and it will just come together and you'll make it work. You're going to rock this! (And I did cry when we found out we were having twins because it was so dang overwhelming...but when they arrived it was just our new normal and we made it. Not that I want another set of twins ever. Nope. Nope. Nope!)

  35. sunset840

    cherry / 107 posts

    hello all I've been following along and I think I'm ready to come out of the woodwork and congrats to everyone!

    Location: NH

    EDD: August 11

    First child? Number 2! DS is 22 months old now and will be almost 2.5 years when this one comes out!

    Any symptoms? Lots of nausea, but I've only thrown up a few times, and complete exhaustion.

    Who have you told? We told our parents over Christmas and my Brother and his girlfriend.

    Current thoughts/feelings/fears? This was a bit of an unexpected surprise and we really struggled with how we are going to move forward in our careers and life with two kiddos. I can't honestly say I'm away from those feelings yet and they have dampened my excitement a bit. I do smile when I think about my son being a brother

    I had an apt today but no ultrasound. We had one back at 5.5 weeks and we have another ultrasound on 1/24.

  36. littlejoy

    pomegranate / 3375 posts

    @sunset840: Welcome!!! I worry about the financial impact of two kids ... and while I'm excited for our kiddo to become a big sister, I worry about the big details too. I think it just means we are intentional people who appreciate planning and being "ready" for things.

  37. RacheBon

    pea / 24 posts

    Welcome to all the new August mamas!

    I had been getting super anxious going into today, since my first pregnancy turned out to be blighted ovum that we found out about at the first ultrasound. But today we saw a little blob with a heartbeat!

    As far as about me, I'm 33 and live in NYC. I met my husband 11 years ago and we've been married for 6. I work in policy research, and telecommute full time. My daughter is about to turn 2, so the little ones will be just over 2 1/2 years apart.

    I can relate to the fears about juggling two kids. I think it's even worse right now because I'm so tired and nauseous all the time that I feel like I'm not being a great parent to dd already. But I know I had some version of these worries the first time around--I remember having busy nights where we didn't have dinner til 9 or 10 and thinking "how will I manage to keep a child fed?" and yet somehow we do...

  38. Cole

    grapefruit / 4649 posts

    @sunset840: congratulations!

    @Torchwood: I'm struggling with the whole "what did we do?" thing too. It's almost worse now since we thought this wasn't viable so I spent 4 days grieving and we had decided we were going to be one and done, so I was wrapping my brain around all of that and then poof, a baby! Feeling miserable definitely isn't helping me, I can't see a way out right now, it's another 30+ weeks of all the joys of pregnancy and then a newborn! I feel so guilty for feeling like this and I know I'll get to the excited point but I'm really not quite there yet. My best friend is having a baby in March so I hope that helps get me excited. It will really help (I think) if it turns out we're having a girl- my brain is really struggling with the fact that it very well could be a boy. I seriously almost ordered matching girl outfits this morning before remembering I have no clue if it's a boy or girl.

    @RacheBon: I'm so glad it went well! I totally remember having the same worry about feeding my daughter before she was born!

  39. peachykeen

    pear / 1648 posts

    @Cole: I'm also secretly hoping for a girl for a lot of the same reasons you mentioned above. I've decided to allow myself to think I'm having a boy until we find out so I can get used to the idea and hopefully not be disappointed if it's true. So far it's kind of working...? We should find out in another 3 weeks either way - eek!

  40. pregnantbee

    grapefruit / 4717 posts

    @Mrs. Blue: A/C. Lots of A/C.

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