This thread has been closed.
honeydew / 7283 posts
@MamaG: @theotherstark: Running!? So cute but challenging of course And we're still not walking over here...
@winniebee: So sorry about the night And that is definitely an important perk of having a nanny! My job is so inflexible I don't know what I would do if I didn't have childcare while they were sick. How was T's first day of school?
@josina: J has been picky lately too (and throwing food, of course). I try to limit snacks and focus on mealtimes, particularly because I can't give J snacks and then tell M that she has to eat her dinner instead. I usually give them exactly what we're eating for dinner and then supplement with fruit afterwards.
pomelo / 5298 posts
I remember with C finding this age to be exciting and fun but challenging. I found her inability to communicate really frustrating. When she started signing it helped some, but still was frustrating. We are in the same place with K. Throw in an unruly pre-schooler that the little one wants to be like and it's pretty much a constant shit show around our house.
Kids are made cute and cuddly for a reason, I promise.
wonderful kiwi / 23653 posts
@MamaG: Yes! It's like, she has enough words to now communicate, but not enough to be more exact so she gets frustrated that we don't understand her sometime!
She will point and yell and blabber to get her point across if it's about something that she doesn't already know the word for.
And she REALLY doesn't like no... She will wail when we tell her no. With DH, if he just talks in that "no" tone, she will cry too!
hostess / wonderful grape / 20803 posts
@MamaG: yeah I definitely found from 12-18 months pretty hard because they want to communicate but can't (or at least T couldn't very well). So, LOTS of whining : )
hostess / wonderful grape / 20803 posts
@snowjewelz: ha, exactly! though of course his brother laughing hysterically teaches him to do it for a reaction.
pomegranate / 3973 posts
@winniebee: Yeah, we end up taking his tray away pretty early. He thinks is fun to feed the dogs now so food doesn't last long on his tray!
@MrsF: Maybe I'll try fruit after supper instead of before. It tends to be my way of getting him to sit still so I can make dinner.
@snowjewelz: Jealous of her vocabulary. Can't wait for E to say more words. He had recently learned 'down' and said 'bath' a couple times but we're pretty limited yet.
Any babys signing? I've been thinking about trying to teach E.
honeydew / 7283 posts
@MamaG: @snowjewelz: shit show indeed. M was such an early talker that we missed a lot of the early toddler communication frustrations. We're definitely starting to see them with J though!
wonderful kiwi / 23653 posts
@MrsF: I feel like the more words she knows, the more demanding too b/c she knows what to ask for
@winniebee: hahaha oh great, thanks older brother for egging him on!
@josina: K was signing a bit before but then she decided she rather talk. And I also got lazy with it...
We always to fruit after, but I wonder if she knows and starts messing around mid-way to get fruit. She also knows fruit is in the fridge and will demand to open the fridge door *sigh*
pomegranate / 3973 posts
@snowjewelz: lol... Ethan knows where the crackers and cheerios are now and it's a corner cabinet/lazy susan that I can't lock. Trouble!
pomelo / 5298 posts
@josina: We sign and K learns it at her daycare. She can now do "more", "all done", "eat" and "bye". I'm trying to work on "please" and "drink".
eggplant / 11861 posts
@josina: Normally great but she is definitely getting her "favorites" I try to give her veggies first, because once she gets meat it is all over....lol
Last night she barley ate at all, I think she was over tired!
Yes to all above on being fussy/clingy wanting to be held, demanding things etc...
She has been known to sit and put her head down and cry.....lovely!!
I kind of have the same approach as @winniebee I calmly walk a way or say G I am here to help you now come here!
Or with food, I say OK you are all done!
wonderful kiwi / 23653 posts
@FaithFertility: I guess it's easier when nothing you do will make them happy anyway haha so I just let her throw her tantrum... G has a flair for the dramatics, lol! K makes her ugly cry face
pomelo / 5660 posts
D has been eating like crazy. She is also starting to show some sass. If I try and get her dressed and she would rather play she lays down and whines. I walk away and she comes running to me hand stretched yelling "no mamma". She has stopped throwing food which is nice.
nectarine / 2053 posts
micah doesn't have much of a vocabulary yet but he points at EVERYTHING. sometimes i don't even think he wants anything... he just likes to point at stuff. and random people when we're out in public. haha
he also sucks at eating. he throws so much food on the floor and loves watching the dog eat it. last night i gave him some lasagna on his tray and the only way i could get him to eat it was if i fed him off of my plate.
eggplant / 11861 posts
@whenoceansrise: yes G thinks what I have is not what she has and points to my plate and says ohhh what's that... lol
pomegranate / 3973 posts
@whenoceansrise: Every time I pick Ethan up, he points. Its like a reflex with him, lol.
honeydew / 7283 posts
@whenoceansrise: J points at everything (objects, people, anything) and says "dada!". Maybe he's saying "that"? Silly kids....
eggplant / 11861 posts
TMI but AF came today and it is the worst I've ever had, I feel like PP bleeding with clots?!?
wonderful kiwi / 23653 posts
@FaithFertility: Oh, my pp periods are HORRIBLE. They are A BEAST
honeydew / 7283 posts
@FaithFertility: No fun Is that your first period PP? After I had M I remember that my first period PP was horrible. This time I got a mirena placed before having a period so that's probably made things lighter.
honeydew / 7283 posts
Any thoughts on how many times a baby can hit their head without sustaining permanent brain damage?.. kidding... sort of I want to cry because I feel like I just can't keep this kid safe. He is crazy! Between wanting to crawl straight off a ledge and trying to dive out of my arms while I'm holding him I'm on edge all day long. It's so much harder when I'm also trying to watch big sister!
nectarine / 2210 posts
K has been having these same communication issues. When she wants something she reaches for it and open and closes her fist, then gets frustrated when the things we bring aren't actually what she wanted.
nectarine / 2210 posts
@MrsF: K has figured out how to climb off things by scooting backwards, which is fine some places like the couch, but is kind of scary when she attempts it off the changing table.
pomelo / 5298 posts
@MrsF: I know K has hit her head significantly more than C ever did. I'm not sure if she's more of a risk taker or I'm less protective or both. I just know she is definitely more determined and doesn't seem to mind the bumps.
persimmon / 1050 posts
@MrsF: I feel you! M hit his head 3 different times the other day. The first time was on the tile entry way where he leaned back too far & toppled over, then twisted while DH was trying to keep him away from the litterbox & down he went, and I don't even remember what he did the third time. Plus he likes to bang his head on things (wall & coffee table mostly)....this kid has a hard head!
hostess / wonderful grape / 20803 posts
@MrsF: it feels like R has a concussion a day. He's so adventurous and seems to be accident prone. I was sort of embarrassed this weekends when we were out because he had multiple eggs on his head. But you're the nurse, you tell ME, lol.
eggplant / 11861 posts
@MrsF: No this is like the 5th?! It just is Bad Bad!! I'm so happy that my cycle seems completely regular as it NEVER was before G!
@MrsF: Hahaha yes, dings, bangs, knocks..... Wish she had hair to cover some of these marks
pear / 1961 posts
I didn't really remember K having so many bumps and bruises, but now that I think about it, we were getting like 3+ accident reports a week at daycare by now. So it's probably the same, and I just feel worse because I am watching E full time. But seriously, so many times, it's like: dude, you were standing there fine and you fell over sideways into the (not sharp) trash can. I can't help you out there, and I can't buy cushioned everything!
pear / 1961 posts
I think my one post from yesterday got lost, but I was saying that E has been a MUCH better eater since we night-weaned. I think the MOTN/early morning milk was setting her up for snacking a big chunk of the day. Now she wakes up starving and eats huge breakfast and lunch. Dinner can still be hit or miss, but she seems to do better if we eat earlier (530ish...ick).
Also, 2 new molars! No idea when they cut, since she rarely lets me look in her mouth. But I caught a glimpse (and risked my fingertip) yesterday. One more, and we'll have a full mouth of usable teeth. It's so much easier once they can actually chew things and not just bite off too big of pieces!
pomegranate / 3973 posts
@MrsF: OMG, E is so bad with hitting his head, I told DH we should've left him at daycare last week because he got way more bruises home with us! I sent him back to daycare Monday with a bump on his forehead from face-planting on the floor, a bruise on the right side of his head from falling in the hallway, a bruise on his cheek from a wall/bench, and a scratch on his lip from diving off the couch (which he is perfectly capable of getting down from). Ugh!
@AngelicOne: E loves to head-butt things! He will slam his head into windows, the oven, his high chair, my nose! SMH.
@KayKay: Another push toward me night-weaning! E did better at dinner last night when I started giving him his food on a spoon (to feed himself), I guess that was more fun than feeding it to the dog. Yay!
wonderful kiwi / 23653 posts
So after bedtime battles this week thinking it's b/c she's sick, I realize she is now pushing her last stretch of wake time to 5 hrs. She woke up at 4:30, went down super easy at 9:30. But now the thing is I don't want her going to sleep at 9:30! We don't get anything done! So I'm wondering if it's time for us to gently start pushing her to 1 nap...
honeydew / 7283 posts
Thanks for commiserating, guys The head injuries are crazy and he's not even walking yet! And yes - he will sometimes bang his head on the wall again intentionally if the first one feels interesting to him. Ugh.
@winniebee: I know it - at work I'm the nurse but at home I'm the mom. I can care for a patient on 10 drips all night and then feel nervous about giving my kids Tylenol
@KayKay: Yay for cutting molars without even noticing! That's great. The same thing happened for us with M.
pear / 1961 posts
@snowjewelz: we officially (and sadly) are done with morning nap. i napped her twice in the morning over the holidays when we were home for 2 weeks. both times, she took a long/good morning nap, but ended up only sleeping from 1-2p maaaaaybe in the afternoon and then was just a hot little mess by normal bedtime. on the days we're home all morning, i'm at a loss for how to entertain her without a morning nap but it's even worse when she wakes up at 2p and i don't get my afternoon of productivity (or a nap myself!).
wonderful kiwi / 23653 posts
@KayKay: I don't know what K is growing back there too haha. At her 1 yr visit, dr said he felt a molar coming in, so I won't be surprised if there are more! I can never look or she bites me if I stick my finger in there haha.
K is the opposite.. When we do 2 naps at home, her AM nap is almost always only 30-40 min, and then she's awake super long and doesn't go down again till 2:30-3 and then sleeping till 4:30 thus repeating this cycle of late bed time! That's why I am tempted to now just push her nap time as late as possible so she'd take 1 nap and wake up at like 2 and go to bed at 7.
wonderful pomelo / 30692 posts
We're officially down to one nap. Since he moved into the infant 2 room, he's only been getting one nap a day, and now he's doing the same on the weekends. He usually goes down around 11:30/12:00 and will sleep for 2 hours (and at daycare he goes down around 12:30).
Also, we're waving and trying to say "Hi" which is adorable! Also, clingy and tantrummy... fun.
wonderful kiwi / 23653 posts
@Adira: When is bed time assuming he wakes at 2-ish?
I think that's the schedule we have to aim for too now that K is stretching out all her wake times.
This thread has been closed.
Today | Monthly Record | |
---|---|---|
Topics | 0 | 0 |
Posts | 1 | 0 |
Ask for Help
Make a Suggestion
Frequently Asked Questions
Bee Levels
Acronyms
Most Viewed Posts
Hellobee Gold
Hellobee Recipes
Hellobee Features
Hellobee Contests
Baby-led Weaning
Bento Boxes
Breastfeeding
Newborn Essentials
Parties
Postpartum Care Essentials
Sensory Play Activities
Sleep Training
Starting Solids Gear
Transitioning to Toddler Bed
All Series
Who We Are
About the Bloggers
About the Hostesses
Contributing Bloggers
Apply to Blog
Apply to Hostess
Submit a Guest Blog
Hellobee Buttons
How We Make Money
Community Policies