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  1. Boheme

    papaya / 10473 posts

    @LazyLightning: I keep getting an early feeling! I think its because DH is on edge about LO coming early since he was a 32 week preemie himself. Watch this baby be two weeks late now

    A funny related to DH being anxious about the baby coming early - We are enrolled in Bradley Method birth classes, and we covered nutrition in our last class. This apparently frustrated him because he pulled our instructor aside afterward and told her "This baby is coming soon! I need to know about BIRTHS, not food!" He was very stressed and agitated that we were talking about servings of boiled eggs rather than pushing positions. It cracked me up.

  2. jh524

    pear / 1632 posts

    Hypnobirthing........any thoughts, experience on it????

  3. LazyLightning

    pear / 1664 posts

    @grizz: haha that's so funny! I was early too - 4 weeks early. My husband was 2 weeks early. We're both the 'first baby' too. So, I'm sure that adds to our thinking!

    I almost forgot! Had a scary experience on Saturday morning... Was blowdrying my hair and suddenly all this clear fluid started running down my leg. It was really watery (I mean, it ran down my leg!!) but I sniffed it and I don't think it was pee. I could feel it coming out but couldn't stop the "flow". Probably an ounce or two or fluid. I was tempted to go to the ER but really didn't want them to tell me "you peed yourself" and send me a bill for $400.

    Anyway I monitored it and it didn't happen again so I figure it must have been just really watery discharge?? Google, of course, scared the crap out of me and made me think my baby was going to die. That or I peed myself (again, don't think so!).

    I bought some pantyliners and am going to buy some PH strips too - you can test if it's amniotic fluid or not, I guess.

  4. Boheme

    papaya / 10473 posts

    @LazyLightning: The same thing happened to me Saturday night when I got up to pee! I also heard a popping noise (which ended up being my pelvis or tailbone popping) and I was convinced for about 5 minutes that I was about to go into labor. The third trimester is sooooo very weird.

  5. swedishfish

    GOLD / coconut / 8266 posts

    @LazyLightning: did you call your doctor?

    I keep thinking I'm going early too but I have no idea why. I was two weeks late and I was first born. DH came on his due date.

    There's so much to do still! My shower is a surprise and I have no idea when it is. Presents are beginning to be purchased from the registry so I know the invites have gone out. I don't want to wait much longer and look like a marshmallow though!

  6. LazyLightning

    pear / 1664 posts

    @swedishfish: nope. it didn't happen again after that once. Didn't want to do the weekend ER thing due to the fact that it stopped, plus our insurance is awful as far as ER/urgent care goes.

    I thought about calling today, but they'd just be like "ok, come in" and then "you're fine" (which, i have nothing going on right now, no leak or whatever, so it'd be a big waste of time).

  7. swedishfish

    GOLD / coconut / 8266 posts

    @LazyLightning: ah, that's still scary though. When's your next appointment?

  8. LazyLightning

    pear / 1664 posts

    @swedishfish: Next Wednesday. I'll ask about it then. Or if it happens again before then, I'll call.

    I also bought some ph strips to test it myself. Paranoid maybe but it makes me feel better!

  9. swedishfish

    GOLD / coconut / 8266 posts

    @LazyLightning: I would definitely try the strips. I'm glad it hasn't happened again though.

    I have a dull pain right underneath my right buttock area. It bothered me every time I tried to sleep on my right side last night and I had a tough time walking at work today. I'm going to try to walk it out with two miles now.

  10. LazyLightning

    pear / 1664 posts

    @swedishfish: ugh I can barely walk 2 blocks on my bloated, swollen sausage feet. LOL. Good luck! It's my birthday today and as a gift my child has decided to spend all day trying to pry my ribs apart. LOL

  11. swedishfish

    GOLD / coconut / 8266 posts

    @LazyLightning: happy birthday!!! It's nice that the baby is trying to give you a present but too bad it's not jewelry or a nice purse!

  12. LazyLightning

    pear / 1664 posts

    @swedishfish: Yes i would prefer either of those - and thanks!

  13. tlcbaby

    nectarine / 2750 posts

    @LazyLightning: I keep getting an early feeling, too, but I think it is just wishful thinking on my part. I think 6 or 7 weeks sounds so far away! But 4 weeks sounds pretty soon so I like that better.

    @grizz: That is so funny about your husband! It is a little late for them to be teaching you about nutrition, our babies are almost here!

    @jh524: We are doing an "empowered childbirth" class so I don't know much about hypnobirthing. But I do know from our classes that whatever comfort measures seem appealing to you will help a lot in labor. We had to practice being in labor yesterday "Contractions" meant holding a piece of ice in our hand for about a minute and a half, but when I used comfort measures (music, massage, different positions, closing my eyes and focusing on happy memories) it was much easier to endure.

    P.S. - I know that holding a piece of ice IN NO WAY compares to real contractions.

  14. Espion

    pomegranate / 3577 posts

    Hello! I'm new-ish here and wanted to throw my belly into the ring as well. We're expecting our first LO on June 8th.

    We thought (based on a too early ultrasound) that we were having a girl, but got the oops! we were totally wrong in January. We had already told everyone we were having a girl, so the OB could have told us we were having squirrels and we wouldn't have been more shocked, heh. I can imagine that is a little bit of how excited Team Green is when they find out.

    I hope this baby comes early, because we're moving 4,300 miles away on June 30th. I'll have to be vicariously excited about everyone else's nurseries. I'm concentrating all my nesting energy into packing, heh.

  15. tlcbaby

    nectarine / 2750 posts

    @Espion: Welcome!!! 4,300 miles? Where are you moving from/to?

  16. Espion

    pomegranate / 3577 posts

    @tlcbaby From Georgia to Alaska. And, believe it or not, we're not military. Just crazy, heh!

  17. swedishfish

    GOLD / coconut / 8266 posts

    @Espion: Welcome!

  18. jh524

    pear / 1632 posts

    @Espion: welcome!! That's quite the move!! I think that would make me crazy to have to move and unpack and get ready for baby..... Wow!! Good luck and safe moving!

  19. Boheme

    papaya / 10473 posts

    @Espion: Welcome!

    @jh524: No experience, but had a friend who half relied on it, half relied on the Bradley Method. We are doing the Bradley Method. She was successful! @Sea_Bass is a June hypnobirthing mama.

  20. LazyLightning

    pear / 1664 posts

    @Espion: welcome! That's crazy about your ultrasound! I'm a little worried about this myself, since the tech didn't really seem "that sure" to me and I won't have any more U/S before baby is born. Oh well. If it's a boy he'll have a lot of pink stuff, too bad.

    Your move sounds like quite the adventure! What a change!!

  21. LazyLightning

    pear / 1664 posts

    Revel - June 1 - Girl
    LazyLightning - June 1 - Girl
    Grizz - June 2 - Boy
    TLCBaby - June 4 - Team Green
    Bisous - June 5 - Team Green
    KnittyLady - June 6 - Boy
    Espion - June 8 - Boy
    ItsMeJules - June 9 - Team Green
    DewDrop - June 13 - Boy
    SoftCream - June 16 - Team Green
    SwedishFish - June 17 - Team Green
    TinyPiglet - June 18 - Girl
    Yourekindapretty - June 19 - Girl
    Mrs. Chocolate - June 19 - ?
    GreenThumb - June 23 - Girl
    JH524 - June 25 - Boy

  22. Espion

    pomegranate / 3577 posts

    @JH524 We're currently in complete denial. I'm expecting a full red-alert level freak out around the time we need to be out of our house and having the moving truck packed!

    @lazylightning Our OB does the ultrasounds himself and he was "mostly sure" about the gender at the early ultrasound. In my job I look at a fair amount of ultrasounds (but definitely not fetal ultrasounds earlier than 28 weeks) so when we got our more definitive anatomy scan, I was thinking, "Holy cow, I sure hope this girl is a boy, because what is THAT?"
    The DH couldn't stop staring at the screen when we found out. That's when I realized that he was secretly hoping for a boy. Thankfully we'd be totally happy either way!

  23. tlcbaby

    nectarine / 2750 posts

    @Espion: Wow! Good luck with the move!

  24. jh524

    pear / 1632 posts

    does anyone else feel really guilty after indulging in ice cream? He's kicking up a storm and I just know he's lovin the sugar rush right now.....but I feel guilty. Oops! But hey, it was ddddelish!

  25. LazyLightning

    pear / 1664 posts

    Third tri morning sickness (which for me, starts in the early evening and lasts all night and in to the next morning), is awful. I hope none of you get it. Started just like my early pregnancy morning sickness - bouts of nausea here and there easing in to longer stretches.

    Except now I'm so big and unweildy that it makes it much harder to jump up from the chair or couch and make a bathroom run. Ugh.

  26. Revel

    pear / 1563 posts

    @Espion: Welcome and wow, that is some move! Good luck to you, what an adventure!

    @jh524: Ha, I have definitely been eating more ice cream than I used to but I don't feel guilty about it at all. I figure my GD screening was normal so my body is processing sugar normally, so I don't worry about it. Only a few weeks left now anyways.

    @LazyLightning: Sorry to hear about the nausea. I've had brief waves, also in the evening, but nothing prolonged. I hope it will pass for you. The weird thing for me about nausea now versus first tri is that I could kind of pinpoint it as related to hunger or food aversion, whereas now I feel like I can't even tell when I'm hungry or what's going on with my digestion, I think because my stomach is so small. I just sometimes feel gross.

  27. Boheme

    papaya / 10473 posts

    @LazyLightning: I'm starting to have some nausea and food aversions again. Ick.

    Last night was an adventure... baby is breech, and I was having pain from him trying to turn, contractions, or both. I work in OBGYN and they were about to send me to L&D to be monitored, but I insisted on going home to lie down and re-hydrate. I guess that did the trick, but it scared me and my husband to death. Baby is still breech, and I am so frustrated. My natural birth plan is just slip sliding away as the weeks go on and he doesn't turn... and it doesn't help that I read in a book last night that one reason a baby can be breech is neurological problems. I am so stressed

  28. LazyLightning

    pear / 1664 posts

    @Revel: yes! It's so much less particular! Annoying. Sorry you and grizz are feeling this way too but I guess I'm glad I'm not alone?

    @grizz: how scary! I hope baby turns soon, but glad you stopped your labor!! When did they check to see baby's position? My doc keeps telling me they won't be able to tell until 35-36 weeks. I'm so curious...

  29. Revel

    pear / 1563 posts

    @grizz: How scary! I really hope baby turns for you. Has he been breech the whole pregnancy? I recall hearing that if baby has been in different positions and just happens to be breech, there is less likelihood of there being problems with the baby resulting in the breech presentation, and that it's more just a preference baby has (unfortunately) developed.

    @LazyLightning: My midwives have been feeling for positioning for like the last six weeks and thankfully she's been head down at every appointment so they think she'll stay that way. I'm not sure if that's universal with all practices. I'm 34 weeks tomorrow.

    Oh, the crazy thing the midwife told me today when asking about any preterm labor signs is that I only really have to watch for it for one more week. She said that even though I'm not full term until 37 weeks, they don't really try to stop labor after 35 weeks. Just makes it all the more real that there will be a baby here soon....

  30. LazyLightning

    pear / 1664 posts

    @Revel: Honestly I'm really hoping for an early-ish labor. I just want to be done with this, assuming the baby's done cooking. I hope she waits till at least 36 weeks but after that, I invite her to PLEASE COME!

  31. Boheme

    papaya / 10473 posts

    @LazyLightning: Both Leopold's Maneuvers (manual position checking) and an ultrasound have showed him as breech. You can actually sometimes see his head as a bulge where my ribcage meets in the middle. But he's gone breech/head down/breech a few times so maybe he'll flip flop again!

    @Revel: He has flip flopped a lot, so that makes me hopeful! He was breech at 31, vertex at 32, now breech again at the end of 33. He was trying awfully hard to do *something* last night, and I'm hoping he was trying to get head down. My Leopolds this morning was inconclusive - we can't tell if its his head or butt we feel between my right and left ribs.

    A coworker tried to make me feel better about the whole thing this morning and I just broke down sobbing on her... I'm sure I scared her, but since we work in OB I know just how small my chances of him turning are getting each passing day.

    ETA - my contractions turned out not to be real ones, so no pre-term labor thank goodness! Just bad Braxton Hicks caused by stress/dehydration we're guessing

  32. tlcbaby

    nectarine / 2750 posts

    @grizz: You may have already seen this, but this is the handout we received in our birth class for helping to open your body up to turn a breech baby. Can't hurt!

    http://www.milescircuit.com/index.html

  33. Boheme

    papaya / 10473 posts

    @tlcbaby: that is awesome! Thank you.

  34. swedishfish

    GOLD / coconut / 8266 posts

    @grizz: I hope baby flips soon and stays head down.

    I've had bad Braxton Hicks lately along with some menstrual-like cramping so I've done two NSTs in the past few weeks. But they never show anything because I only have the Braxton Hicks during the NST and not the cramping. The NP told me to drink more water but I drink the most water out of anyone I know. Haha

  35. Espion

    pomegranate / 3577 posts

    @Grizz The Miles circuit sounds like the spinningbabies.com stuff as well. Might be another thing to check out for more reading if you haven't already.

    Also, I looked up whether breech presentations are associated with neurological deficits...short answer is its not. Apparently this is "old knowledge". In retrospective studies there seemed to be a correlation, but in studies that followed babies from birth forward, there was no differences in their neurologic condition/functioning. There is no direct correlation - causation. The weaknesses of the scientific literature.

  36. swedishfish

    GOLD / coconut / 8266 posts

    Has anyone else had their lips swell up? I just noticed my top lip is swollen. I checked my blood sugar and blood pressure and they're both fine. Hopefully icing it will help!

  37. tlcbaby

    nectarine / 2750 posts

    @swedishfish: Definitely in other places, but not my lips. Were you able to find anywhere if that is a symptom others have had?

  38. swedishfish

    GOLD / coconut / 8266 posts

    @tlcbaby: from what I've googled it seems like other women have had it but I've never heard of it before. I learn something new about pregnancy everyday!

  39. tlcbaby

    nectarine / 2750 posts

    @swedishfish: Well my fun symptom in the past week is my hands fall asleep at night while I'm sleeping. And my right arm and hand continue to hurt throughout the day and feel kind of weak all the time. REALLY hoping that one doesn't stick around!

  40. Boheme

    papaya / 10473 posts

    @Espion: That makes me feel much better! I've been doing the Spinning Babies exercises and I don't want to get too optimistic too soon, but I think baby is head down down... This is based on my lack of rib pain, not being able to feel his head distinctly like I could before, and feeling hiccups down by my hipbones. Crossing fingers!

    @swedishfish: I feel that way too! They keep telling me to drink more water, but I feel like I'd drown internally if I did lol

    @tlcbaby: Ouch! I hope that doesn't last.

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