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@Shantuck: @FaithFertility: Glad you had good appointments!

@FaithFertility: glad to hear all is well

I've been lurking for a while, but I figure it's time to really join the board!

Location: Phoenix, AZ
EDD: 10/19 (also, we're team green!)
How far along: 12 weeks and a few days
First child? Yes!
First doctor appointment: Ummm, back in February, 6 weeks ago already. So far, we had two appointments with a Nurse Practitioner (who I decided I didn't like, so now we're seeing the midwife practice at our hospital), a dating ultrasound at 8 weeks, a midwife appointment at 9 weeks to get started with the midwives, then this past Thursday we had another ultrasound at 12 weeks. We have two appointments next week, one with the midwife and one with the high risk specialist.

Any symptoms so far? Ugh, I've been miserable since 6 weeks... Between 6 weeks and 9, I lost 17 lbs (nausea and extremely low appetite) and was basically a zombie. It didn't help that the old nausea meds gave me vertigo... Got IV fluids and new meds at 9 weeks (following a truly horrific ER visit) and things have been somewhat better since then. This week, things have really improved and I've had more good days than bad. Still super tired and sore, but I can deal with that for 6 more months if the nausea is gone for good!!

Who have you told? At first, we told my parents right away (we actually found out on my mom's birthday, so we didn't wait too long to tell them, just until after the first appt). We told DH's parents after the first ultrasound. Then, it was a slow roll of telling our closest friends. We told our best friends right away, but waited to tell most everyone until after the first ultrasound. It was pretty hard to keep it from people because I was so sick!! We put it on Facebook last week so now everyone knows!

I've enjoyed reading this board so far and it's really helped me a few times not feel so crazy! Looking forward to participating now!

October 2016 Babies!
Oct 1 - Amorini (#1)
Oct 3 - Avivoca (#2)
Oct 5 - Goosey (#2)
Oct 5 - TFrances (#4)
Oct 6 - Hylidae (#1)
Oct 7 - Miss Ariel (#2)
Oct 9 - KrzyRiver (#1)
Oct 10 - ThePickleMonster (#1)
Oct 10 - Paddington10 (#2)
Oct 10 - Mand4 (#2)
Oct 11 - BunBun (#1)
Oct 11- TeamJH (#1)
Oct 11- Alexandra603 (#2)
Oct 12- KitKat (#1)
Oct 13 - Waiting4you (#1)
Oct 14 - SDMomma (#2)
Oct 15 - Jaguar (#2)
Oct 15 - GreeneBee (#2)
Oct 16 - FaithFertility (#2)
Oct 19 - Boston Terrier Mom (#2)
Oct 19 - ArtsyFartsy (#2)
Oct 19 - Bernieboo (#1)
Oct 21 - Whiskers (#3)
Oct 21 - Charmed (#2)
Oct 22 - Dookie32 (#2)
Oct 23 - Tapdancer (#1)
Oct 25 - Lurleen_Lumpkin (#1)
Oct 29 - MFA_Lady (#2)
Oct 31 - Winniebee (#3)
Nov 2 - MrsRCCar (#3)
Nov 5 - Shantuck (#2)

@Bernieboo: welcome!

I'm I guess 13 weeks today but I swear 2-3x today I've felt a little pop/pressure flop?!?!!

I doubt it could be baby but feels EXACTLY like I remember DD's first flops which I think I was about 15-17 weeks?!

@winniebee: Yeah, and since I am going by the new date date I was ( 13w 6days) according to my LMP so definitely could be I guess! I'm pretty sure they were definitely different, crazy I feel like this is going to FLY BY!

@TFrances: Awwww Well then I say I am feeling baby too!!!!!!! Crazy!

@winniebee: Yep,I was laying down too

@jaguar: You and me both, girl. Ha! Soon enough, right?

Popping back in after a few days away. Unfortunately this weekend my hubby came down with strep throat He's not one to go to the dr but I heard him get up early Saturday morning, asked where he was going and he said the walk in clinic. So while he was at dr I got up and took a shower. He called and said I should go to my moms for the weekend so baby and I don't get sick. He's Clorox wiped every handle and surface and remote and lysol'ed everything else. Now I'm really nervous I'm going to get sick. Anyone had strep while pregnant?

@waiting4you: Not while pregnant, but my experience has been that strep feels worse as an adult that it did as a kid (although, both aren't very pleasant!). Hope you're in the clear soon.

Is anybody feeling like their belly is getting smaller before it gets bigger? I've had SO MUCH BLOAT (even before my BFP--it was one of the first things that tipped me off) and I feel like in the last few days my belly is a bit smaller. Of course, it's totally freaking me out, and I'm counting down the days until my Friday morning ultrasound.

I know it's so unlikely for something to happen after a great scan at 8 weeks, but goodness. The ultrasound anxiety just never goes away!

@whiskers: You are my soul sister. Thanks for making me feel better! (And, really, when else will we ever complain/worry about flatter--if you can even use that term, ha!--bellies?)

How far along : 12w3d
Current symptoms : Fatigue, gas, joint pain
Maternity clothes : Almost all my shorts are maternity and I wear regular and maternity shirts.
Missing anything from pre pregnancy : Just my energy.
Looking forward to : Getting my NIPT results and passing that hurdle
Biggest worry : Zika hitting here. I hate being in the red zone on the map.
Have you announced? : Immediate family and close friends know. Will announce once I get my NIPT test results, hopefully by the end of next week.
Next appointment : This Wednesday for 12 week visit and NIPT

@whiskers: Good idea!

How far along: 11+2

Current symptoms: Exhaustion. Still having an upset stomach most mornings, but otherwise not as much queasiness as a few weeks ago.

Maternity clothes: Pants, yes. Haven't been able to fit into my jeans since week 6. Since DD was born I've been rocking the flowy tunics, so most of my normal tops can stay in rotation for a while.

Missing anything from pre pregnancy: WINE. Which is weird, because I didn't have a taste for it when I was in the first trimester with E. This time I am missing it BIG TIME--although, maybe having a toddler has something to do with that.

Looking forward to: Next ultrasound. Been feeling worried for the last week or so, and really hoping to get a good report this week. Plus, then I can start buying #allthebabythings. (Which, for the record, I don't even really need, but you know. Baby things.)

Biggest worry: Missed miscarriage. Had a great scan at 8 weeks but I always get really scared before ultrasounds, so I'll be freaking out until Friday.

Have you announced?: Yes and no. To family and close friends and work, yes. To the general public/other acquaintances, no. We'll likely do DD in a big sister shirt on Instagram if all goes well at Friday's scan.

Next appointment: Ultrasound and appointment this Friday morning! (Can you tell I'm counting down?)

How far along: 13 weeks 5 days

Current symptoms: Headaches about once a week, ms a bit the last few days but had been doing well for a week or two before that. Super tired but can't seem to fall asleep. Woke up today with all kinds of red splotchy marks on my stomach. Worried it could be a crazy quick stretch mark onset or possibly hives for some reason. Strange that it's only on my abdomen and back though.

Maternity clothes: I've been in them since day 1 when we found at just shy of 4 weeks due to OHSS. Got back into normal clothes for a bit but now it's just more comfortable to wear the maternity pants. Wearing most of my normal tops though.

Missing anything from pre pregnancy: Sushi, specifically raw tuna.

Looking forward to: our gender reveal party on the 30th! The information from our NIPT test has been available for at least 2 weeks now yet we are waiting to find out with everyone else at the party.

Biggest worry: everything. But specifically that I'm not eating enough. I'm having to try very hard to consume enough food every day and make sure that I'm getting enough protein and iron. I was never a big eater before getting pregnant so this is a challenge now.

Have you announced?: Yup, it's public and on social media. Feels good to not have to keep it a secret anymore.

Next appointment: Not until May 11th!!!! which freaks me out, but luckily we have a lot going on between now and then so I have plenty to distract myself.

Hey ladies! Quiet over here, but I've been reading along. Work is dreadfully hard right now.

@Bernieboo: Welcome!

How far along : 15w2d
Current symptoms : 10 hours/night of sleep = not enough!
Maternity clothes : 50/50. Still using a bellaband with regular pants.
Missing anything : Not having a super sensitive gag reflux. Can hardly get my pre-natals down now.
Looking forward to : Making the work announcement @ 20 weeks and getting the maternity plan in place. It's complicated: http://boards.hellobee.com/topic/negotiating-maternity-leave-in-high-level-position-small-us-company-no-fmla-or-clear-policy
Biggest worry : That something is wrong. I feel good for about 4-5 days after each appointment where I get to hear h/b or see u/s... then I start worrying again.
Have you announced? : Just family. I'll share with friends soon.
Next appointment : Anatomy scan is 5/6! And I have regular OB appt 4/29 but that will move up or back a little.

Have been quiet, but reading along has made me feel more sane. Thanks to all you regular posters

How far along: 14 weeks
Current symptoms: Extreme hanger without small, frequent meals. (Which works out for my toddler, since mama always shares her snacks!)

Maternity clothes: a few looser t shirts. Stretchy jeans still fit, thank goodness, because don't have any maternity ones yet. Bought 2 pairs of nice stretchy jogging pants though!

Missing anything from pre pregnancy: Fresh fruits and salad from dining halls (hubs works at a college so the selection is awesome, but irrational listeria fears are holding me back).

Looking forward to: finding out sex, getting rid of so much pink baby girl stuff if it's a boy

Biggest worry: health of babe, giving birth in a new hospital with higher intervention rates

Have you announced?: Not to work or on social media (I work part time from home)... the bumps is kind of obvious if you know me, but we are new in the area so our newer friends/acquaintances don't know

Next appointment: April 21st

How far along: 12 weeks

Current symptoms: Frequent, intense, debilitating migraines. All other symptoms pale in comparison right now. The only "fun" symptom is crazy dreams! They make me LOL every morning.

Maternity clothes: Not even close. Zero bump, zero bloat.

Missing anything from pre pregnancy: Being able to take effective migraine meds. Vacation planning without the threat of zika.

Looking forward to: Getting past tomorrow's 12 week appointment and if all goes well, giving myself permission to start thinking ahead a bit more - registry, nursery, etc. I'm also looking forward to letting folks at work know (hopefully later this week) - it will be a huge relief not to hide when I'm not feeling well, etc.

Biggest worry: Missed miscarriage. Ever since my morning sickness abruptly went away at 9 weeks (still feel a bit queasy at times, but nothing like before) I have been a nervous wreck. My 12 week appointment is tomorrow morning (no scan, just a heartbeat check) and I am literally counting down the minutes.

Have you announced?: To immediate family and close friends only. After tomorrow's check up, we'll hopefully announce to the rest of our family, work and gradually to the rest of our circle (not a social media announcement, just as we see folks...). I've found announcing in general to be exciting/fun, but also pretty overwhelming. I'm a baby steps type of person, I think!

Next appointment: Tomorrow. Fingers crossed.