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  1. matador84

    papaya / 10560 posts

    @Banana330: haha. Just content! Trust me by the time you get to the third, I've almost forgotten I'm pregnant altogether!

  2. Banana330

    nectarine / 2317 posts

    @matador84: ha ha I remember my friend telling me that about her second... I kinda get this time.. but i'm still sick enough that I can't really forget!

  3. YouGotMe

    apricot / 477 posts

    I am very special. Go to a normal prenatal doctors appointment and leave with a prescription for antibiotics for strep throat I didn't know I had.

  4. Bibliolove

    kiwi / 526 posts

    @Banana330: hope life can slow down a bit for you! It's great you have parents close by that can potentially step in.

    @YouGotMe: haha, that's great it was found though! And treated. How did they know to test for it?

  5. Banana330

    nectarine / 2317 posts

    @YouGotMe: did you tell them they were looking at the wrong end? Ha! Strep is the worst.. but it does clear up fast with antibiotics

    @Bibliolove: yes we're lucky they are close and retired. I'm hoping they can help a lot in the next week or two, we just got good news that our cabinets can be installed a week earlier than we thought! Lots to do in the next week though.

  6. StrawberryBee

    nectarine / 2530 posts

    @Banana330: lol! @YouGotMe: hope your strep clears up quickly! I'm also curious how they diagnosed it at a prenatal checkup.

    Great news today after my earlier bleeding scare: ultrasound still shows a baby, heart rate is now up to 183 (!), growth is only a few days behind, which is consistent with my previous ultrasound and no one seems concerned by (it would change my dd from 9/14 to 9/17, but they indicated that wasn't enough to make it worth changing). No clue yet as to where all the blood came from. Just glad to still have my little grape. He/she was even wiggling around!

  7. YouGotMe

    apricot / 477 posts

    @Bibliolove: It was my regular family doctor so she thought I sounded funny and so she took a look. I wasn't even in pain but my throat is full of pus.

    My family doctor released me to my OB and they called me today to tell me when my OB appointment is booked for... April 11th. I have to call my OB and make them try again because that's two months away.

  8. Banana330

    nectarine / 2317 posts

    @YouGotMe: wow April 11 is crazy! What about first trimester screening?!

    @StrawberryBee: great news on the ultrasound. Sounds like sex might have been the cause.

  9. YouGotMe

    apricot / 477 posts

    @Banana330: My Family doctor gave me all the forms and everything will be sent back to her.

    My OB usually doesn't take people until they are 19-20 weeks. But after our loss last summer he said he would take me at ten weeks. Clearly someone forgot and I'm going to have to call and tell them I'll see them in march lol

  10. StrawberryBee

    nectarine / 2530 posts

    @Banana330: sex was definitely the cause of what we saw in the ultrasound 😂😂😂. I'm sorry, I couldn't resist...I think I'm still a little giddy. Yah, the timing is definitely suspect. Poor DH is in for a long dry spell!

  11. Mrs. K

    apricot / 308 posts

    @StrawberryBee: happy to hear you grape is doing well! I hope I have the same luck... had my appt yesterday and everything looked good, measuring exactly to the day. The brown spotting I've been having turned into red blood today and I'm having some mild cramping. Not sure if it has to do with the exam yesterday because she also looked at my cervix to confirm it's closed. She didn't measure heartbeat.. Called the doctor but they aren't going to do anything because if I'm miscarrying there's nothing they can do. I guess I just have to wait and see...

  12. StrawberryBee

    nectarine / 2530 posts

    @Mrs. K: I hate that answer: wait and see. I understand that they can't actually do anything, but it's so thoughtless and unfair. I hope your cramping calms down and you just have a really sensitive cervix. Thinking of you

  13. MsInformation

    apricot / 263 posts

    @strawberrybee So happy to hear your news! Glad the ultrasound went so well.

  14. Mrs. K

    apricot / 308 posts

    @StrawberryBee: thank you bleeding has gone back to brown and cramping is mostly gone. Not sure what any of it means but hoping I just have a sensitive cervix like you said.

  15. StrawberryBee

    nectarine / 2530 posts

    @MsInformation: thanks!

    @Mrs. K: whew, hoping that the cramping stays away and that this was just a momentary blip! Seeing red is so scary

  16. Kemma

    grapefruit / 4291 posts

    Thanks for all the love and support, ladies, it means a lot I'm still hanging around waiting for my body to get the message and start doing something, my midwife has referred me to an OB (public health system so it will be free) so I guess they'll lay out my options...

    Strangely enough, I'm mostly ok with how this has panned out, this baby was a one shot wonder so even though this would've been our third, I actually felt more nervous about this one (or like it was too good to be true). Now I just want it to be done so we can move forward!

  17. Mrs. K

    apricot / 308 posts

    @StrawberryBee: yes it is!! Trying to take it easy today and tomorrow and hoping for the best. First trimester is such a period of waiting and watching.

    @kemma: waiting for the body to catch up with your emotional state is hard when you are just wanting to move forward... thinking of you

  18. StrawberryBee

    nectarine / 2530 posts

    @Kemma: hoping your body gets the message and you can have closure soon

    @Mrs. K: you said it!

  19. Mae

    papaya / 10343 posts

    Hi all.... I was really active on HB during my last pregnancy but not nearly as much this time so far. I actually totally forgot about the due date boards until just now and thought maybe I'd come say hi!

    Location: Ohio

    EDD: September 27

    First child? This is my 2d

    Any symptoms? OH yes.

    Who have you told? We've told my parents and a few close friends. I just had an ultrasound though, so I'm feeling like we might start telling people more widely now.

    Current thoughts/feelings/fears? ... overwhelmed? This is a planned-for and wanted pregnancy, but I'm scared. Of being pregnant with a toddler, and having a newborn with a toddler/preschooler, and handling 2 in general.... I know it'll be fine but I just have a lot of mixed emotions right now.

  20. lazypanda

    kiwi / 636 posts

    I've been sick for the past few weeks and there was no heart beat today. We have to take a break as we wait for my body to naturally pass the fetal tissue and allow my body to heal and recover. I hope everyone has a healthy and happy pregnancy.

  21. Bibliolove

    kiwi / 526 posts

    @Mae: hello and welcome!

    @lazypanda: I'm sorry for your loss.

  22. Mrs. K

    apricot / 308 posts

    @lazypanda: I'm so sorry for your loss and I hope it goes by quickly for you

    @mae: welcome and congrats!

  23. MsInformation

    apricot / 263 posts

    @lazypanda I'm so sorry for your loss. Wishing you a smooth recovery.

  24. Boopers

    pear / 1548 posts

    @lazypanda: no I'm so sorry

  25. lazypanda

    kiwi / 636 posts

    @Bibliolove: @Mrs. K: @MsInformation: @Boopers: thank you ladies. I just thought we were in the clear after seeing a healthy heartbeat two weeks ago & had dreams of a boy. My LO is my awesome rainbow baby so I'm hoping that means I'll have another awesome rainbow baby #2. I'm choosing to let it pass rather than scheduling a d&c as my previous loss occurred relatively quickly.

  26. StrawberryBee

    nectarine / 2530 posts

    @lazypanda: I'm so, so sorry . Hoping you get your rainbow baby soon

  27. StrawberryBee

    nectarine / 2530 posts

    @Mae: welcome! Lots of 2nd time moms here. My lo is having major mommy preference lately.

  28. sugarbee

    olive / 51 posts

    @lazypanda: I'm so sorry for your loss

  29. Kemma

    grapefruit / 4291 posts

    @lazypanda: I'm so sorry for your loss and hope it's over quickly for you

  30. StrawberryBee

    nectarine / 2530 posts

    @Mrs. K: how are you feeling?

  31. Banana330

    nectarine / 2317 posts

    @lazypanda: Sorry for your loss. Hopefully it's over quickly.

  32. Banana330

    nectarine / 2317 posts

    @Mae: Welcome!

  33. Banana330

    nectarine / 2317 posts

    @Mrs. K: Any more spotting?

  34. Banana330

    nectarine / 2317 posts

    September Mamas

    September 8 - Banana330 (#2)
    September 14 - StrawberryBee (#2)
    September 15 - YouGotMe (#2)
    September 17 - MsInformation (#2), Lulu22 (#2)
    September 19 - homestylecreations (#2), annem1990 (#1)
    September 22 - mademoiselle3 (#1)
    September 24 - Boopers (#2),
    September 27 - Mae (#2)
    September 28 - mommygrace (#3)
    September 30 - Bibliolove (#1), Mrs. K (#1), sugarbee (#2)
    TBD - matador84 (#3)

    Appointments
    February 15 - Sugarbee
    February 17 - YouGotMe
    February 22 - matador84
    February 23 - Bibliolove, Banana330 (NT scan)
    March 8 - annem1990, boopers
    March 11 - mademoiselle3

  35. lulu22

    apricot / 306 posts

    @Mae: welcome! I hear you on being scared about having a baby and a toddler. I am terrified. The pregnancy hormones don't help, I am a bit of an emotional wreck about it all. We don't have any family even slightly close so I just don't know how we are going to cope.

    I've had a really rough week. We have had to take our toddler to the ER twice in one week. First for suspected meningitis (which turned out to be strep throat) and then 6 nights later we had to take him in again for croup (he has had it about 5 times now). I'm struggling to deal with the stress of him being sick and having to go to the ER as well as my pregnancy symptoms/exhaustion and now I've caught something and am sick myself. Plus we were supposed to go on vacation last week but we had to cancel as my son was too sick to fly. So I'm super sad about that. We have no family nearby and I'm a bit of a mess. It's not helping with the 'how am I going to cope with 2 kids?' feelings. I hinted at my mother that I wanted her to come and help me but it's a 24hour flight for her to get to me so she can't exactly just 'pop over'.

  36. Banana330

    nectarine / 2317 posts

    @lulu22: oh poor thing! that sounds awful. Do both your families live far away? I know a few people who live far from both and rely on friends and neighbours but also use a nanny service to get a break sometimes.

    we're struggling here too. My pregnancy sickness is really putting a burden on DH and he's burnt out. We're approaching the apex of our reno and both stressed to the max between toddler, reno and work. I'm hoping things will calm down once the reno is over and i'm so lucky my mom can step in to help occasionally.

  37. lulu22

    apricot / 306 posts

    @Banana330: oh my gosh, it just gets to the point where you think "enough!" It's like as soon as things start to get a bit tough, the rain just pours and everything goes wrong! Hopefully your renos will get done promptly! I have a friend whose renos were still taking place when she was 38weeks! ugh!

    We do have some really great babysitters that we can call on, thankfully, but the problem is that babysitters don't exactly want to come around when the kid is all germy and infectious! And because we just moved, we don't really know our neighbours and only have a small handful of local friends. DH said last night that he is going to go and make friends with the neighbours this weekend and get their phone numbers! Ha! I could never just knock on someones door and do that, but he is that kind of friendly person and can get away with it! hopefully we will have more of a support network by the time the baby comes.

  38. Bibliolove

    kiwi / 526 posts

    @Banana330: @lulu22: I hope things get better for you both! It sounds very tough, especially with the addition of first-trimester woes.

    I had a dream last night that was pretty traumatic about miscarrying. I think I need a break before my appointment next week. I'm going to try and focus on work, reading, other acitivites until then.

  39. Banana330

    nectarine / 2317 posts

    @lulu22: That's great DH can do that! Our friends started a reno in the first tri and it finished when the baby was 3 months old! Ours will NOT go that long...

    @Bibliolove: ugh.. there have been an unusually high number of losses on this board. It does freak you out. I've got a week until my next scan it's been almost a month since the last one.. it's constantly in the back of my mind.

  40. lulu22

    apricot / 306 posts

    @Bibliolove: I too often dream that I am bleeding. It's hard but last time I found the dreams/fears did get a bit better after the first trimester. Hang in there and try to do something nice for yourself to take your mind off it!

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