cantaloupe / 6791 posts
@Mrs. J: I pumped this morning while N was eating breakfast and this was the face I got
pomelo / 5132 posts
@lilteacherbee: bahaha J is always saying "Mommy's pumping milk for L! I wanna see!"
pear / 1788 posts
P is consistently sleeping 6 hours, sometimes up to 7.5 my problem is that when she wakes at 3 am, I don't fall asleep again until 5, even though she's sleeping again by 3:15. Insomnia sucks!
nectarine / 2086 posts
@Mrs. Microscope: that's rough, I'm sorry!
@ohcaptain: Hope you feel better quickly!
@lilteacherbee: lol that is so cute. he's like "hey mom, can I get in on that?"
I just propped up the crib with a pillow and made a little snuggle nest. So I'm all set for trying to move her to the nursery tonight. I think I'm gonna sleep in the nursery too on an air mattress bc I don't know if I'm ready to be apart!!
pomelo / 5607 posts
@Mrs. Microscope: That sucks! The one good thing about wake ups is that I fall asleep quickly. (If she's with me. When I leave her with DH so I can get more sleep I take forever to fall asleep and it totally backfires.)
L had shots yesterday. She's fine (slight fever, but that's it), but it makes me so sad to see the little bruises on her leg! I wish the anti-vaxxers were right so I'd have a valid reason not to have to do it. But better shots than serious illness. Except when I'm sad right this second.
pomelo / 5607 posts
Also, I've come to accept that I'm never going to do her monthly photos on time. But I figure as long as it's still some time during the appropriate month, that's okay. She won't be 4 months till next week, so we made it!
nectarine / 2994 posts
@buttermilk: Isla's sleep has been amazing since I put her in her crib so good luck! She's staying in our room til 6 months though.
I've had to pump the last few days because of Isla's awesome sleep! She slept 12 hours (8-8) the night before last, and 11 hours last night.
@Torchwood: I was a nervous wreck when Isla had her vaccines a few weeks ago! I made sure to schedule it when dh was available to come so he could hold her while she got them done and then I gave her boob for comfort afterwards. She has some more due in a couple of weeks which I'm already freaking out about - but better then having a serious illness!
pomelo / 5607 posts
@MrsStar: I definitely make DH handle the shots, and I comfort her after. Maybe next month she'll actually want to comfort nurse! But I'm scared of needles and I don't want her to pick up on that, plus I get so upset that it would make me cry to see her face when they do it. She's a daddy's girl for sure, so she's not missing out by my not being willing to be watching. And yes, so big! She's almost 12 pounds now! She's getting some chubby thighs going.
kiwi / 696 posts
Thanks everyone, I ended up feeling fine, just tired and a little off.
What does everyone think of the wonder weeks being attached to due date not birth date? E was a week overdue, but I feel like her wonder weeks are corresponding to her calendar age.
Really, I'm just looking for something to explain her 15-30 minute naps today.
nectarine / 2086 posts
@Torchwood: SOOO cute!
Well last night's nursery experiment was terrible. She slept in the crib for 2 hrs until 11:45 and then I was up until 3am trying to get her back down. I rocked and put her in the crib a bazillion times, never asleep for longer than 5 mins and usually much less. I finally brought the rock n play up into the nursery and she slept in it until 7am.
I had set up the crib propped on one end with a pillow and made a nest with a rolled towel. Even put her RnP insert into the crib. Still swaddled & white noise. I have NO idea what to attempt tonight. What should I do ladies? Try again or just assume she isn't ready? I got very little sleep and as a result had very little milk when I woke up.
I will probably post a thread on the main board too.
nectarine / 2262 posts
@buttermilk ahhh good luck with the crib transition. I dread this with M. He's still in the RnP for reflux... he spits up even when we lay him flat for just a few mins to change him, so laying flat for sleeping is out. But I worry about what am I going to do when he either (1) outgrows the RnP but is still spitting up; or (2) quits spitting up and we have to transition to sleeping flat in the crib. Uggh. Oh well, I guess I will deal with it then.
M slept from 9pm to 4am last night!! I could NOT believe it. I woke up at 3am in a panic, lol. Of course once he was awake at 4am he wanted to party and didn't get back to sleep till 6, then was up again at 7... BUT I did get him back down for a nap at 8:45 and he's still asleep an hour later so I feel like today has been a win! DH volunteered to get him back to sleep after the 4am feed, but for some reason the last 2 weeks, he cannot get the baby back to sleep. Which means baby is crying, which means I can't sleep, and then I have to get up and do it anyway which prolongs the whole process. Ugh. I think he's trying but I don't know what he's doing that isn't working.
I am going to my OB's office today to start pelvic floor therapy. It's covered at 100% under my insurance since we've met our deductible and OOP max this year. I'm not sure I really *need* it since I'm not having incontinence or anything, but my giant episiotomy down to my rectum still hurts sometimes (especially after going #2) and it's still kind of tender to touch, and I cannot imagine having sex. My OB basically said give it a try, it can't hurt and will probably help. I am not sure what to expect.
My house guests (round 1) come in a week for 5 nights. Then my in laws and SIL come on Halloween for 7 nights. Lord be with me...
nectarine / 2086 posts
@MrsADS: oh man I hope this sleeping thing is a new trend for you!!!!! FX! Have fun today and hope things go smooth with your house guests!
pomelo / 5132 posts
@OhCaptain: they are from due date, at least I think that's what the app says
nectarine / 2086 posts
@OhCaptain: I haven't decided. First week was from her birthdate. But she is 8.5 weeks now and the second one hasn't really hit yet.
kiwi / 696 posts
@Mrs. J: I know, and I feel like it fit with my first (he was only 3 days over due)but this time no. I also realize babies don't read books or use apps, but whhhyyyy...... Need more sleep.::/
pomelo / 5607 posts
@OhCaptain: The app asked for due date, not birth date, so I would think that's what it's tied to. Well, as long as you're fairly sure of your dates. And I gave in and downloaded the app. All y'all's talk about it got me too curious. It says L should find her hands soon! She's already gotten good at getting them in her mouth, but she has no idea they're hers.
@buttermilk: I would wait, but I'm a bad person to ask since we don't even have a crib.
@MrsADS: Yay sleep!
I know they always say to put baby down for sleep as soon as they show cues of tiredness, and that's what I've always done, but she goes down SO much easier if I wait until she's actually fussing or her eyes are almost closing on their own. That's usually at least half an hour later. I'd say she winds up asleep at the same time regardless of when I start, because if I don't wait she just fights sleep at least that long.
Also, am I the only one whose kid has cradle cap in her eyebrows instead of on her head?
And a picture cause I can!
kiwi / 696 posts
@Torchwood: I'm sure the due date is the way to go, I just want something to blame E's new apparent hatred for napping in her bassinet on something. And we aren't currently in a wonder week.
nectarine / 2086 posts
@Torchwood: I feel similarly about putting her down for naps. Less fussing when I do it earlier, but she just lays there for 15-20 mins until she falls asleep. And I just took a pic of it earlier today lol. We tried napping in the crib. She eventually cried so I put her in the swing. But at least she laid there quietly for 15 mins, better than nothing!
And R totally has cradle cap on her eyebrows too! Your baby is such a cutie!
nectarine / 2262 posts
Ugh you guys I'm so mad I am in tears. I totally flipped out on DH. I left to go to my doctor's appointment, I was only gone an hour. He gave M some breastmilk in a bottle and got him to fall asleep for a nap, yay! But M HAS to be swaddled for naps otherwise he will wake up in like 5 minutes once you put him down. DH had just put him down once I got home... IN the swaddle but not velcroed closed or anything! So of course 5 minutes after DH put him down, M starts flailing around, wakes himself up and screaming. So... now I have an overtired hysterical baby who WILL NOT sleep even after I spend ANOTHER HOUR nursing and trying to get him down. I feel like I am the only one who can put him to sleep because DH does stuff like that. Maybe I am overreacting but I am still so mad. And of course DH went back to work so guess who is here with the crying baby... me. And his witching hour/non sleeping time usually starts about 5pm so getting him to nap from now until about 9 is impossible. Great. UGGGH
pomelo / 5607 posts
@OhCaptain: Is there one coming up? Maybe your baby is just precocious.
pear / 1788 posts
@MrsADS: so many hugs!
@buttermilk: tough abiut the crib. No advice, just hugs!
P slept 8 hours last night! But has been a total beast today.... Screamed through baby and me yoga, fussy all day and won't sleep more than 5 min at a time, no matter what I do! And DH is gone until 9 tonight... Ugh!
pomelo / 5607 posts
Oh, meant to ask, did anyone wind up having their baby on August 9? Wondering if any babies are exactly L's adjusted age. I think she wound up pretty middle of the pack, by adjusted age.
kiwi / 696 posts
@Torchwood: yeah, she haas one in six days. Also, my baby was born at 10:30 pm on august 8. So....pretty close to the 9th.
I think I may have found the sleep interrupting culprit, after her last nap (15 minutes in her crib and 15 minutes on me) she rolled from belly to back. I thought it was a fluke but she did it like 4 times.
nectarine / 2086 posts
@MrsADS: that sucks! I'm so sorry, it's crazy how much they don't listen. Grrr!
My hubs has a ton of after work meetings/happy hours, etc. He is a journalist and super involved in our community and local city politics/urbanism stuff so that means he works basically non stop. Is up early and also writing articles late at night. And he has had events every night this week. I think he held R for a total of 15 mins yesterday? And today is the same so far. I know it's his job and I don't want to make him feel guilty but I find it so hard to hide my emotions. I'm so tired of caring for this baby all day with no breaks while his life is essentially unchanged. sorry, end rant!
nectarine / 2086 posts
Also he hates it too, but he just can't help himself! He admits this is an unusually busy week but idk there's always something. Ok, end rant now.
nectarine / 2262 posts
@Mrs. J hope it helps. The first session was honestly kind of painful. Not horrible but pretty uncomfortable. I guess that's why I need to doing it. Hopefully it helps.
Y'all... M slept from 9pm to 6am last night!!!! I am assuming it's a fluke but still... OMG. Awesome!
kiwi / 696 posts
@MrsADS: so, in pelvic floor therapy what happens, does your therapist have their hands in there or is it more like exercises?
nectarine / 2994 posts
@MrsADS: Yay! These babies are pretty good about their sleep! Hope it's a regular occurrence for you!
pomelo / 5607 posts
Got super frustrated with these 20 minute naps, so I gave in and swaddled her. She's been asleep over an hour! Now here's hoping it doesn't negatively impact her sleep tonight!
nectarine / 2262 posts
@torchwood M is a rockstar napper in his swaddle! He will take 2-3 hour naps, it's crazy (usually just one of those a day). I guess I shouldn't be swaddling him for night AND naps, but well... it works so I am afraid to mess with it! Getting him to sleep out of the swaddle is gonna be a mess!
Today has been sleep nirvana - M slept 9 hours last night, then napped 7-7:45, then from 9:30-11:30, then we went to the grocery store and the bank and he had a little 20 min catnap at the store. Then lots of crying, finally asleep at 3:30 and still asleep now at almost 6pm! I am a little worried that with all the sleeping he did not nurse enough today and is gonna wake up all night wanting to eat!
@buttermilk you may have posted this already, but how did you make your crib nest to transition R out of the RnP? Just for my future reference, lol!
@ohcaptain at least for mine, I do exercises at home (like kegels kinda), and at the sessions, they use these little stimulators (like maybe 2 inches long). They do one in my rectum and one in my vagina (not at the same time!). The rectum one I have to squeeze for a certain number of seconds, then release, and do that for a few times. Then the vagina one stays in and I guess it "stimulates" the muscles - some people say it's like a pressure feeling or something, to me it kind of hurts a little. Anyway, that's for like 10 minutes or something. It's pretty weird.
nectarine / 2086 posts
@MrsADS: yay!! Nice sleep and I agree about swaddling for nap. It works so well but I was gonna ask you guys HOW do you NOT swaddle for naps? She just won't fall asleep bc of her crazy raptor arms flailing about.
However, what have been your all's 8 week wonder signs? I've been thinking it hasn't hit is, but maybe it has bc girl will nooooot nap today! And yesterday was similar!
The "nest" I did a big rolled up blanket and put t in an oval shape and put it under the crib sheet. I've been experimenting with different things. Yesterday I decided to connect 2 travel neck pillows together bc I thought it would be more comfy. Still in an oval. We will see how that works once I get the guts up to try the crib again!!
pomelo / 5607 posts
@buttermilk: I hold her for naps, so I just pin her arms. I probably should be working on having her sleep alone, but I love holding her when she's sleeping!
She's been napping crappy too, which I think is the wonder week. In the last few days she's suddenly making eye contact for loooong stretches, when before it was a few seconds at most. And she's cried when someone she didn't know well held her, which she never did before. She's also suddenly able to get her hands in her mouth much faster. So I'm assuming all that is tied together.
nectarine / 2086 posts
@Torchwood: yep R has also been sticking her hands in her mouth, I would have never though it to be a sign. And same a friend she has never met before came over today and she cried when held which was new. But she did eventually warm up to her.
pear / 1930 posts
@Torchwood: C was born 2:47am on August 10, so almost August 9. She'd be a good comparison for adjusted age. It would have been nice if she was born on the 9th... considering I started having regular contractions on the 8th!
pear / 1930 posts
Daycare is interfering in a way I never thought it would... C gets so bored during the day on the weekends. She constantly has to be engaged or held if she's awake or she'll fuss. I guess home is boring since we don't have six or seven other babies to watch!
Ugh but they are supposed to only let her sleep in a crib but she totally sleeps in a RnP and swing only. I was hoping daycare would help us transition out of the RNP at night with crib naps but I guess not! Luckily she's on the small side (just over 10.5 lbs) so she can stay in a RnP for a while.
pear / 1930 posts
Oh... how are you all in colder climates keeping LO warm at night? We have a puffy wearable blanket, but it is way too big for her and I can't seem to find a small one. We've been doing fleece nightgowns and a swaddle sack, but I worry that won't be warm enough when it gets super cold. I wish she could wear a hat at night.
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